Cosmos Corporation: A Study on Endurance and Faithfulness

— by John Knicely

“The Bible says when we face difficult times and we don’t really know the way forward, the best thing you can do is just stand,” said Darin Kassebaum, co-owner of Cosmos Corporation.

Since the St. Louis, Missouri company started in 1980, Cosmos has faced countless challenges. The producer of natural health, wellness, and care products has faced near bankruptcy and personal tragedy. Darin, his father, and his three brothers who own the company, have leaned on truth from the Bible and faith in Christ to endure. 

“In those moments I recite, I confess scripture,” said Darin. “And I believe that in doing those things and recalling to my mind the promises God has made, it bolsters courage in my soul. And it enables me to stand.”

If you’re a faith driven entrepreneur, you’ve no doubt faced obstacles, too. We sometimes turn to scriptures like Proverbs 3:5,6 (NKJV), where the author says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your paths.”

That’s a lot easier said than done, however. How do we not lean on our own understanding? It’s all we know in any given situation, even if we are prayerful and diligent.

Supplier Shutdown Leads to Prayer and Petition for the Cosmos Corporation

In the late 1980s, Cosmos Corporation’s lone shampoo supplier shut down abruptly. In the blink of an eye, Cosmos had hundreds of customer orders with no one to fill them. 

“We were in trouble instantly,” said Don Kassebaum, Jr.

The brothers specifically remember Don Sr. praying, “Lord, we commit this decision to you. If you want us to have this, make it happen. If you don’t, shut the door.”

When we offer up a situation for God to direct, we often want Him to come through and save the day. At least in the way we imagine it. We often imagine ourselves standing in front of two doors saying, “God, here is Door #1, and here is Door #2. Door #1 leads to a positive outcome. Door #2 would be less appreciated. I’d be very glad if you chose Door #1.”

In this case, the family tried to purchase the shampoo supplier. That was Door #1. They offered $180K to buy the business. The owner came back and asked for $200K. They couldn’t afford the counteroffer, which meant the situation was quickly leading to a disappointing answer to prayer.

“So it was clearly shutting the door,” said Darin. “And in those moments you just stand. If you go out of business, you go out of business standing. But I have found dozens of times God opens Door #4 in that moment.”

Sometime later, a woman who had been working for the supplier approached the Kassebaums and said she could help them make shampoo. 

“Okay, here’s an open door,” Darin recalled thinking. “Let’s go through this. I’m not certain it’s the right one, but it’s the only door that the Lord hasn’t shut. Let’s go that way. Many times it’s led to an open field of opportunity.”

The supplier agreed to sell some production equipment, and the woman taught the family everything they needed to know. The total cost came out to $1800. 

All of a sudden Cosmos was making shampoo and fulfilling their own orders. It was an unforeseen, pivotal moment that set Cosmos up for breakthroughs in natural shampoo production.

A Story of Hope for Entrepreneurs Waiting for God to Open or Close a Door

Psalm 119:105 (NKJV) says “Your word is a lamp for my feet and a light on my path.”

If you’re like me, you want it to be a floodlight showing everything ahead and around the corner. But that’s not how God works. Not every entrepreneur will receive a resolution like the Cosmos Corporation experienced. In fact, many entrepreneurs will have to close down a business and pick up the pieces. Even when God ultimately moves, it may come after years of prayer, tears, and questioning. 

But by surrendering control and trusting in Him, regardless of the outcome, we grow in intimacy with Christ. And that is the fulfillment our hearts ultimately desire.


No matter the obstacles in your path or the mistakes you’ve made along the way, God can use you in mighty ways. Watch this video of convict turned coffee roaster. And then check out more inspiring videos on the FDE Youtube channel.

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Episode 250 – How this Entrepreneur Helps His Employees Bring Faith to Work with Brock Bukowsky

Do you ever find yourself afraid of going through with a spiritual integration plan because you’re not sure how it will be perceived?

It’s okay if you do. When you look at the state of the world today, there are plenty of reasons to be skeptical. On the surface, it seems that Christians are forced to be less vocal about their faith in the marketplace, and in many ways, that may be true.

But today’s guest, Brock Bukowsky shows that it is possible to bring your faith to work and to help others to do the same.

Brock is the co-founder of Veterans United Home Loans, which specializes in helping veterans and service members obtain a home loan by taking advantage of benefits they have earned. Today, the company has over 3,000 employees, yet Brock has still managed to find ways to care for the spiritual lives of each of them, regardless of their religious background.

He joins the show today to talk about the practical ways organizational leaders can implement these structures in their own businesses and share some of his own powerful story. 

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Rusty Rueff: Welcome back, everyone, to the Faith Driven Entrepreneur podcast. When we look into the state of things today, it’s pretty easy to get discouraged. I mean, on the surface, it seems that Christians are forced to be less vocal about their faith in the marketplace. And in some ways that might be true. Today’s guest, though, Brock Bukowsky, shows that it’s possible to bring your faith to work and help others to do the same. Brock is the co-founder of Veterans United Home Loans. They specialize in helping veterans and service members obtain a home loan by taking advantage of benefits they’ve earned. Today, the company has over 3000 employees and Brock has still managed to find ways to care for the spiritual lives of each and every one of them, regardless of their religious background. He joins the show today to talk about the practical ways organizational leaders can implement these structures in their own businesses and share some of his own very powerful story. Let’s listen in.

Henry Kaestner: Welcome back to the feature of not from our podcast. I’m here with William and Rusty. William and Rusty, it seems to me that God seems to have chosen some of his finest to get out there and be in the mortgage business. Of course we know, Casey, but there are a bunch of examples. And, you know, few people have had to scalel as today’s guest.

Rusty Rueff: You know, in some ways it makes a lot of sense to me because what are you doing when you’re in the mortgage business? You’re helping others, right? You’re helping others realize a dream, a dream of a home or a business in particular, you know, a home for a mortgage. And what does a home mean? A home means a family. What does a family mean? A family means, you know, the joy of bringing God inside of it. And yeah, so a little bit of servant leadership going on here when you’re in the mortgage business.

Henry Kaestner: Yeah. You’re with people at a real special moment in time, right? I mean, I think about, you know, I get married to Kimberly and then we thought, gosh, you know, we’re really and maybe this is just us buying into the American dream. It’s like I just getting married is a big start. But, you know, if we can have a home and then we can raise a family and then we’re rooted in a community and it’s kind of a special thing about buying a home. I don’t know if that’s uniquely American or not, but I’m grateful.

Rusty Rueff: And it’s the beginning of generational wealth, right? The chance for generational wealth. If you don’t have that home, it’s pretty tough to think that you’re going to be able to put something aside for another generation.

Henry Kaestner: Yeah, indeed. William

William Norvell: Yeah, I mean, and so you guys know sometimes my esoteric Bible knowledge takes over. So I was trying to think what God would have to say in a scripture about home buying. The only thing I can come up with is I know it’s a place where lots of people don’t understand because it’s a large purchase that a lot of times you only do once. And so the opportunity to step into that transaction is a place that I think is so life giving because so many people don’t understand large contracts in their stories or stories. With the housing crisis we’ve all lived through where people didn’t understand what they were doing. And so when I see redemptive outlooks on an industry that matter so much and can get you in so much trouble, if done poorly to have faith driven people leaning into that is something that’s really fantastic. But I’m also going to ask Brock for some random esoteric Bible scriptures to lead his practice of mortgage lending.

Henry Kaestner: I bet he’s got them I bet he’s got them.

William Norvell: I know, I know. I’m giving him a little early window into what’s coming.

Henry Kaestner: Well, without further ado, Brock, it’s great to have you on the program. Thank you for spending time with us. Thank you for the the heart and the mission you have of bringing that dream of homeownership to a segment of society and beyond. But that’s really important. I mean, those that have served their country, helping them to get out there and experience that joy of homeownership, the opportunity to build generational work, to start the family, to be involved in the community and all those things. It’s an incredibly important contribution and marketplace. And we’re grateful for you spending some time with us. Thank you.

Brock Bukowsky: I appreciate you guys have me love what you’re doing. Thank you.

Henry Kaestner: So just want to get into what you’re doing a bit and there’s something really important about where we going to get to today, which is can you have a spiritual integration where you can bear witness to your Christian faith in a business that has achieved some level of scale, some a number of people that we talk to or entrepreneurs at scale are thinking, well, gosh, when I have five or seven employees, I can be a little bit more open about my faith. But at some point in time, you know, when I get up to a couple of hundreds or in your case a couple of thousands, that’s going to break down because somebody is going to take offense and I’m going to find myself compromising my ability to do my work well. So maybe I need to tone it down. I think you’ve taken a different tack and we’re going to explore that today. But I just want to get into it a bit here. I know you brought in a chaplain. You do book clubs and faith forums and you do all this in a space where people have different beliefs. We’ll, dive into some of the details, these initials later, but start us off by telling us a little bit about why you thought these were all important. Explore. You’re running your company. You’re a Christian. What made you want to create this kind of culture for your employees?

Brock Bukowsky: Yeah, I would say so. It started off we started the company 2002, so 20 years ago. I grew up in the church, but I would say looking back, I […] Christian. When we started the company over those first five years of the company, this my brother and I, we started growing slowly and we were a point where I hadn’t any kids yet. I just get married, but I had a lot more time, you know, it was work. And then we could hang out with people at work. We’d go to Happy Hours, we’d have golf events with our employees, we’d do both. And eventually we just got to know employees real well and became friends with our coworkers. Right. And it was a thing where we just cared about them. They cared about us, and we were loving where things were going. And then about five years in 2007 and I could share more about this later, but I had a process that really changed me. And I would say when I became a Christian five years in and when that happened, it really changed the way I looked about things. And I had seen this big change in my life. I mean, it’s complete change to where now I saw myself, Hey, I’m going to be in heaven someday. I’m going to be in heaven with Jesus. And it gave me this just this lasting peace I never had before. And it was something that I wanted for all my friends and all my coworkers I’d spent the last five years with. I want heaven for them, right? I want this lasting peace for them. We need to make something happen here. Mortgage world fun, we’re doing a lot of great things here, but that’s really nothing in comparison to the big picture. Right. To heaven. And so that’s why I said, Hey, we need to get something going here at Veterans United and I’d like to get some things going. And we started it real slow, but it was out of a just a love and care for my friends. My coworkers wanted them to have what I had.

Henry Kaestner: So it happened five years in.

Brock Bukowsky: So the experience that happened, that kind of changed everything for me. Yeah. So again, I grew up 32 years of my life going to church. My grandpa was a pastor, went to his church. You know, I probably said I was a Christian, but I was really just going through the motions and I don’t think I didn’t get it. I didn’t see my need for Jesus. Church was, to me, more about just going in and learning how to be a little bit better person and trying to follow these rules. I was learning, but I think I missed the big picture. I missed the Gospel and 2007, one of my coworkers, we were hanging out at happy hour and she said, Hey, why don’t you come to church with me and my husband? And I said, Well, you know, I go to church once in a while and I said, No, why don’t you just come with me to our church? Okay? So I gave it a shot. Different church than I had been to in the past, was enjoying it was good message. I thought it was a pretty good sermon and everybody gets up to sing and I see the song we’re going to sing and it’s titled I’m So Sick. I was like, I’m not sick. You know, I’m this. We got this good business. We’re taking care of people. I’m not going to stand up here and say I’m sick. Let’s kind of gave them a dirty look like I know why you got me here. They sing. I’m not sing I just got to stand there, go home. But something hit me there at church that day that was different than the first 32 years. And she invited me back about midweek.

Henry Kaestner: Despite the dirty look.

Brock Bukowsky: Despite the dirty look. Yes. Let’s be back. Okay. I guess I’ll go back. I’m not even sure why I went back with them, but went back to church with them that next week and then started going regularly with them. And a lot of scripture was being presented, a lot of scripture up on the board there. We’d read through and it’s just more than I had seen in the past. I realized 32 years growing up, going to church, I’d never actually read a Bible on my own. I mean, maybe picked up a Bible and read through a verse with people at church or maybe in Sunday school. I’ve never like had my own Bible sat down and read through a chapter. And so one morning before work, grabbed the Bible, went to a Starbucks and said, I’m going to I’m just going to read a couple chapters. Starting the book of Matthew. And as I started reading, I read through all 28 chapters, […] before work. It took me about 2 hours or something. But as I was just going through that, it just sort of hit me. Yeah, I’m reading about Jesus, reading about his life, and it hit me that way. I am sick, right? I don’t live this life that you live. I’ve got lots of problems. I mess up all the time. I don’t have a lot of boundaries for myself and I need Jesus. I need to be a lot more like Jesus than I need him. I need him. If there is this heaven, the only way I’m getting in is through what he did, not through this mess that I’ve made of my life. And that’s kind of, I’d say, right, really, that I don’t know if it’s a moment or more of a process, but now that was this big switch in my life. And then there was over that next few months, it was like I got more into it, more into it. Committed to getting into my Bible every morning before work, committed to trying to really start doing a little bit of prayer, which I never really done. And then I just felt this draw like, I want my coworkers to know about Jesus. I want them to see what’s been going on with me and tell them about Jesus.

Henry Kaestner: So when you talk about realizing that you hadn’t had a lot of boundaries, is that a way of you saying that there is some amount of confession going on?

Brock Bukowsky: Yeah, I would say I think I was always we were our parents raised. We were good to other people who weren’t going to like, you know, dump on anybody. We took care of people. But it was yeah, a lot of stuff, a lot of boundaries for myself. I’m not hurting others. I could kind of do whatever. Yeah, yeah. You know, went out and party too hard. But look at this guy. Murdered somebody. I’m okay, You know, selling drugs. I’m okay. I’d take a few too many beers, whatever it was. And so I can always just kind of make excuses, you know? I’m okay. I got this, and I really didn’t see this. This need for Jesus, right? Yeah. 32 years of my life. And until I, like, read all about him and how he lives and how he thinks, and you know what he did. And then I was like, wait, I am way off for that.

Henry Kaestner: Yeah. So we had very similar paths. I grew up in this anomaly Christian home. We went to church, but it wasn’t until 28 that I came to faith. I was coming to faith through reading the Bible and through the grace of God is the person who ended up answering a lot of my questions on that. He said, Listen, super important. So, you know, it’s been a desire to read the Bible. This brought you to faith. Don’t stop, do it every day. And so I continued to do that. And our audience knows enough to know that I talk about the Nicky Gumbel, Bible one year app, but it was just on a run this week and I was listening to it again and I just thinking, This is the most amazing book ever. And it’s either the most incredible outlandish work of fiction ever, which is. Worthy of reading it just because we read other incredible fiction, or it’s the word of God in either case. And I thought, you know, I need to challenge more of my non believing friends to just read it. Yeah. And it just in a non presumptuous, prescriptive way, it’s like, listen, I’m not trying to convert you. This is not how it all works. But this whole thing I base my life on is all based on this book. And, you know, I’d humbly submit to you that it’s worth actually like opening up. So you did that for 2 hours. Like, I actually need to read this. You read the entire gospel, You know, it only took you 2 hours, right? I mean, it just. Is that an appropriate challenge for us? And you’ve done a whole bunch of different things. I’d like to hear how you explore this, but so you come away from this feeling like I had this weekend, which is some number of my friends don’t know Jesus. And I want to share that and I want to do it winsomely. But how do you think through that at the business and in light of the key part of you coming to faith were just saying, you know what, I’m going to read this and try to figure out whether it’s true or if God speak to me or not.

Brock Bukowsky: Yeah, I certainly don’t think we did perfectly. I do feel like God was leading us and just put this on my heart. So let’s start introducing it slowly. So at the time we weren’t thousands of people. You know, there’s maybe, I don’t know, maybe 200 people at the company. And it was just this slow invitation. It wasn’t like, Let’s put something out to the whole company. Hey, let’s go. Let’s either read the Bible, but it was, hey, I’m going to invite just eight people that I think might be interested. Hey, what do you think? We get together and just we’ll read a passage in the Bible the other and talk about it. What do you think the prep of this thing around? Let’s just get together and read. Read that. And we got together, about eight of us, and started doing that. And that was just a slow kind of just start slowly, not go to the whole company. And let’s just that was initially where we started. That was going real well. And then I think just we read it. I think we’re going through the New Testament. I don’t know where we even started. I think we might have started in Matthew. I think we did, because that was what really had an initial impact on me. Get through that. What do you want to do next? I think somebody throughout I heard the C.S. Lewis guy has some really interesting things. And so we picked up mere Christianity and the eight of us read through that. We’re meet once a week now for that and we can write some more people. Yes, I’ll have somebody, you know, that maybe would want to come and do this. It’s again, it wasn’t some big company broadcast, but it was just through relationships that had already been established and the 8 people I invited, were people I knew real well. I feel like it’s important that we have a relationship with someone they really know. We care about them before we just jump right in and this doesn’t work. So invited them. And then we had a bigger group and out of that we decided to, hey, some of us have had these conversion stories through our spiritual journey. Let’s why don’t we share this with a coworker? So we started doing we would share our testimonies. One person for a week would share their testimony and we’d have about 50 people come in and listen to somebody else hear their testimony, which is I thought that was a really neat way to get going. There was no pressure. Hey, you can play this. You don’t want to hear, you know, life transformation that one of your coworkers or one of your managers has had. And let’s listen to it. So that was kind of I would say that was the progression throughout that first year.

Rusty Rueff: I come out of a lot of years of working in the human capital. HR space, right? And so as I listen to you, it’s very encouraging because you’re basically laying a roadmap out here for other entrepreneurs or people who have businesses or even groups to think about, Hey, how can I bring this conversation about faith into the workplace? It’s not an easy thing to do, by the way. Right. And I want to talk to you a little bit in a second about those of other faiths and how they feel about this as it’s going on. But I heard you say you started with scripture, which obviously can never go wrong with. Right. You know, you start with scripture. Then you transitioned into, well, let’s explore a piece of literature or writings around Scripture with C.S. Lewis. And then you came back around and said, okay, now let’s have people talk about their experience, which is a pretty good little formula. Right. I can see that flywheel, you know, going there and feeling very inviting for people to come into that. There would be people who would say, you know, yeah, perfect. I don’t want any other interpretation, but I’ll listen to the Bible. And then there’s going to be other people go, Well, I don’t find it there, but I like this idea of, you know, a C.S. Lewis or somebody else interpreting and giving their spin on it. I like that. That’s intellectually curious. And then there’ll be people who go, Well, I don’t want either one of those, but I like the stories. I like the stories that people tell about, you know, what their faith does. So I don’t know, am I missing something? Is there another step in there?

Brock Bukowsky: You know, I think that was right. I mean, it wasn’t really planned out. That just kind of happened through like that. I do think that the testimonies when we were giving testimonies, people want to hear those stories, but it also they could just come and listen. They could say, oh, this is garbage. I don’t believe it, but I still want to hear. And then maybe you see this quantified or see it as water and just getting people exposed a little bit, realizing, hey, it’s okay to talk about faith at work. It’s okay. We don’t have to be so scared. You know, for a lot of us here, faith is our number one priority in life. For us to say we can’t talk about that or we spend most of our time with 40 hours a week, that sounds kind of ridiculous. So, hey, let’s let’s talk about faith. Let’s have an open culture where we can talk about it. Let’s also be very respectful to others and make sure we’re always doing a loving, gracious, gentle way.

Rusty Rueff: Yeah. So talked about the practicalities and maybe you’ve run into a couple of these speed bumps where people of other faiths either feel excluded or not as important. And what do you do with that? Yeah. Then what do you do with those who are like, Hey, you know, I’m good. You guys go do your thing, but I don’t want to hear about it.

Brock Bukowsky: Yeah.

Rusty Rueff: What do you do with those folks?

Brock Bukowsky: Yeah, I don’t know that you’ve got the right answer there, but I think the people that say I don’t hear about it. Yeah, we just. We leave them alone. Certainly. Right. We don’t want to pushy, but hopefully they’re still being exposed a little bit and maybe hear a conversation about it. But I don’t believe at work and just continually hammering on somebody, Hey, you haven’t come yet. You haven’t come here, You won’t come, you’re gonna take more of it’s just an invite. And then if they say no, we kind of leave it alone.

Rusty Rueff: But maybe you have to give them a little more space than that, right? Because let’s say I work for you, but I’m not of your faith orientation, But two or three of my peers are, and they get together with you. But I don’t Do I think that, you know, the old adage, you got to be present to win or, you know, you got to be in the room to be there, how do you give them space to feel like it’s okay? You know, don’t worry, I’m not going to promote my buddy because he comes to the right faith group. You’re not going to be left out.

Brock Bukowsky: I can see that. I can see that certainly being a concern. Now, it’s different, too, with the company, you know, being over 4000 employees. It’s different because I can’t know everybody. But back at the time, as we were getting this going, I do feel like I knew everybody, you know, spent time with others. And actually an example of this, like in that first year, probably maybe in the second year when we kind of had this where I was talking about Jesus a lot, you know, the our company Christmas party. And I would talk a little bit about my faith and, you know, Jesus, this whatever it turned out to be, to push you with it. But I had a friend ask one of their friends who was not Christian, but a believer in another religion. Isn’t Brock putting Jesus in your face? Doesn’t that offend you? And what this person said was, you know, I know Brock cares about me. I know he cares about me. And he’s only doing it because he cares about me. And I’m not offended because of that. I do think that is important when people know that you love them and care about them. And you’re not being too pushy. I didn’t, you know, and with this lady, I hadn’t invited her 17 times for the trip or whatever. Right. Maybe it was one invite.

Rusty Rueff: Yeah, I find the same thing can happen even outside of the faith space. Right? You know, there are the guys that all sit around and talk about sports. Sports, sports, sports, sports. And then are there are people who could care less about sports and sometimes they’re of a different gender, Right? That’s just not their thing. And they go, well, I am, but I’m don’t feel included. And there are certainly ways to make them feel included. We just have to work harder at it. Right. And we have to be sensitive. And I think that that’s what I hear you saying is, look, it’s a big open tent. Anybody is welcome. But if you don’t walk through the tent, it’s not like I feel any less about you or that. But the tents. You’re always welcome. You’re always welcome.

Brock Bukowsky: It’s good. That’s great

Rusty Rueff: You know, so what we’re seeing happen over the last decade or so has been these things called employee resource groups. And they’re popping up in particularly in the tech space out here. And like Salesforce has a very large we’ve actually had we had to work on, didn’t we.

Henry Kaestner: Yeah. Yeah, we did. Yeah. For Faith Force.

Rusty Rueff: Right. Who’s the president of Faith Force And Marc Benioff, the CEO supports this and, and lots of different faiths have their own little faith force groups. Have you seen other things pop up inside your company because of what you’ve done to give voice for Christianity?

Brock Bukowsky: Yeah, certainly. So we saw the effectiveness of these small groups and also just in building deeper relationships, right, talking about deeper things. And so we then started this small group program where it wasn’t all faith based. Certainly there are faith based groups, you know, hey, we’re going to be reading through Philippians today, but then there’s other groups that, hey, we’re going to talk about bourbon, with our favorite bourbon, right. And in different groups. So that’s evolved. So we started this seven when we.

Rusty Rueff: I’ll admit. I would like to be in that group.

Brock Bukowsky: It’s not like a group. Yeah, they’re going to take the.

William Norvell: No one that reads Philippians with the bourbon. I just feel like this. Those two groups might combine in certain parts of conversation.

Brock Bukowsky: We should combine.

William Norvell: Putting it out there.

Rusty Rueff: I like that.

Brock Bukowsky: I think we have some members and that are in both of those groups. Yeah, for sure. But the small groups, as it has evolved, we’ve got more and more people to get involved and people can they can start a group, write anything they want and it’ll have encourage more and more of different faith groups to, you know, not don’t just want Christian groups or faith groups that want to Judaism and just world religions. We just want people talking about faith, but also want them in other groups where maybe they are talking about bourbon, just building deeper relationships inside the company. And it’s evolved over 15 years now to where this launched this winter. We’ve had right at 300 different small groups at the company. I think 2400 people signed up for a small group and we made a big push. You know, this was put out to the company because it wasn’t, hey, you got to join a Jesus group. It was like, Hey, look at all these groups. Find one that you want to join. We hope you would join one and you can you’re.

Rusty Rueff: Who coordinates these things.

Brock Bukowsky: Well, yeah. So now our faith and community director does coordinate that stuff. I think we’ve mentioned that the chaplain earlier and so when we went out as the faith thing kept growing, I’m like, we need someone to really get their arms around this and be able to push it. It’s something I couldn’t handle and try to run the company.

Henry Kaestner: One of the things I want to point out there less, it just be missed by some of our listeners before we move on to the next aspect of this to include chaplaincy. But when you do a faith driven employee resource group and you get to a certain scale like, you know well more than 4000 employees, you’re going to have people of different faiths and some number of people it’s like, Well, I don’t want to go ahead and I want to have groups on Christians, because then people who are of a different faith that I don’t think is right are going to come to me. And I’m have to say yes to them, too. I think that that’s a hurdle we need to overcome. I think we need to be encouraged as Christ’s followers that faith stands out in the marketplace of ideas and that we shouldn’t feel like we need to shut down a conversation to include other faiths just because we’re worried about that. Instead, I like to think that for a seeker that’s out there to look openly and honestly, there are a lot of people on this planet that have a reason for why they think they exist and you need to be aware of them. And ultimately, I think the Christianity not only has the supernatural advantage, but it also is the faith tradition that has the most explanatory power. It’s the one with the most hope and then circle back to the supernatural part, because it’s true. And I just want to maybe Brock, you can before I hand it back to Rusty and William. Maybe you just comment on that a little bit, because I do think that that is a belief that people have is like, Well, because I’m a Christian, I don’t want to create an environment in my company with a lot of employees that will talk about the faith conversation, because undoubtedly I’d have to say no to somebody whose faith system I disapprove of or I don’t agree with. Yeah, How do you respond?

Brock Bukowsky: I think that’s a great thought. And I go back to the 2007 thing. I do think I have certainly changed over the years. I think in 2007, I would be like, Yeah, we only want to have Christian groups. I mean, that wasn’t put out there, but that’s where I was. That was like, I don’t want to have other faith groups, but as it’s evolved, I am more and more pushing for let’s get more and more different faith groups. A lot of people talking about faith. If you’re strong in Judaism, we want you to be able to meet with people and talking about your faith, Right. I also think the more people are introduced to faith, more conversations they have, maybe they do hear about Jesus and ultimately more people will come to Jesus. Just the more faith comes we have. We won’t have to be exclusive in a what small group we have. We can only. You read the Bible? No. Again, I think I’ve changed. I know I’ve changed over the years in that it’s just become more and more open to everything. And I feel like it’s working better that way.

Rusty Rueff: Yeah. Who doesn’t want a company that has a whole bunch of people who are grounding themselves in values and principles that are good, regardless of what faith they’ve come through. I mean, your company’s just going to be better right now. It’ll just be better. I’m going to turn it over to William, but I’m going to ask the external question because we’ve been talking internally. So what about the external perception of shareholders or customers or your contractors or all of that? How do they look at the company and do they see all this stuff that’s going on internally?

Brock Bukowsky: I don’t think so. It’s not something we are promoting on the outside. It’s not. So I don’t know that people would even know other than being in a, you know, deep conversation with one of our coworkers talking to somebody else that they might hear they were in a group or whatever it is, but it’s not something that we are promoting on the outside. So I’ve never seen it be an issue again. It’s just that if we do this out of care and out of love and in a respectful way, haven’t seen it be an issue. You know, we went a couple of years in as we just hired our faith community person went and visited a large company that is a Christian. So we’re not a Christian company. That’s not like our mission. You know, we’re not a Christian company, but we went visited this company that is a Christian companies in their mission statements, and they gave some real good advice, I thought, and they said, hey, you know, if you’re going to do this stuff, that’s your company. You need to be smart about it. But don’t be scared. Be smart about it, but don’t be scared. I mean, you got to go after it, but be smart about what you’re doing. You probably don’t need to promote that in the newspapers and magazines and, you know, just just be really smart about what you’re doing. And so I think that line has stuck with me as we go through this whole process.

William Norvell: We’ve talked before on the podcast about this concept of one size fits one. And, you know, I would encourage, you know, entrepreneurs listening, right? I mean, your community, your people, your location, whether that’s one location or various or remote or it’s all going to look different. Right. It’s really hard to take a blueprint from one organization. You know, we had Sue on from favorable Salesforce is a completely different organization than Veteran united both in number of people, HQ leadership, just all kinds of different things. And so we always try to think about that really hard to, you know, it’s just kind of what is that appropriate approach for your organization, right? And the people that you’ve been entrusted to steward alongside. And so I’m going to switch gears just a little bit. This is like one of our favorite conversations. As you can tell, we very rarely have someone doing it at scale, so that’s why we’ve had so much fun diving into it. But I also feel like and in one way, I want to go back to your entrepreneurial journey a little bit and hear about you as an entrepreneur. Brock and you, you’ve built this incredible business which we’ve kind of barely touched on. So I want to give you a more forum to say, Hey, where did you pick up entrepreneurship? And you started your first business in grad school. How did that translate into your second business? And tell us a little bit about the growth of Veterans United, how you decided to focus on that niche specifically and where the business has come?

Brock Bukowsky: Sure. Yeah. So my brother and I went to University of Missouri. Both wanted to be teachers. I was in secondary ed, teach high school math, coach, baseball, basketball. He was an elementary ed. He was two years younger than me. And we were we were loving college. I just was graduating, so ready to go out in the teaching world. So I’ll stay around a couple more years. Brother was still there, so I went to grad school, going to get my master’s in math. I was a teaching assistant at the time, so I had office hours with some other teaching assistants for grad school. I guess six of us shared this office and one day I came in to my office, sat down, and there’s a missouri football ticket. Universities are tiger football tickets sitting on my chair. I get it. And I tell my buddies, I said, Hey, who’s taking this this moment? But he said, Oh, it’s yours. He said, I happened to be walking out of the office yesterday. I glanced in your trash can and there is a can of coke in your trash can with a big yellow sticker on it that said Free football ticket. Somehow I had bought this coke on campus, drank it, didn’t see the sticker, threw it away, and he’s kind of seeing it. And what had happened? Coke was doing a promotion with the University of Missouri, giving away free football tickets. They want to get more seats in the stands because of the stands were pretty empty back in the late nineties. So I look at this ticket I look at $26 value I already had an all sports pass my brother too. We were going into the game that week and brought it in and there was one of the guys outside has signed his I need tickets you know so I hand in the ticket and I said Is this 26 bucks? Will you give me four? And he said, ten bucks. Okay. I bought a 75 cent coke. It’s now got ten bucks brother. And I sit in the football game and. Kind of a light bulb goes on like $0.75 for a Coke. You know, go buy another Coke, get another football, take another ten bucks. We go get some quarters, get a real quarter by $10 worth of Cokes, end up with three more stickers. It was like every third can had a sticker. So now we got three tickets for the next week’s game. We go down to the stadium, same guy. Stand on that corner with the sign. I give him the three tickets, he gives us 30 bucks. So we’re like, Hey, we. I think we got something going here. Well, it’s kind of evolved by the end of the football season there. We would follow around the Coke truck. When the Coke truck would load up the machine, we’d be waiting. We’d have a bag of quarters. And we just. We’d unload the machine, take off the stickers, then just leave the sodas. The students would line up to take free sodas. And so it kind of turned in almost like this business, I guess. Well, I’m in grad school. He’s an undergrad, and it was pretty fun. We didn’t even have any attention getting into a business, just totally locked into it, but kind of grew it from there and from there introduced us to this idea of a ticket business. And my brother Brandt started really working on Google on search engine algorithm just launched at that time. And pretty soon we got a website and we were ranking number one on Google. For any ticket search. You could search for Lakers tickets, the Yankees tickets. And then we were our little Show Me Tickets website. That was pretty much garbage, but it was ranked number one on Google. So we would just connect buyers and sellers, kind of like a StubHub. And that thing grew and grew to where we had, I think that third year and we had hired about 60 college students that were filling orders for us online who would come in and we just have to call the had a ticket and have them send them to our buyer. So that was a lot of fun. But like we weren’t building a business was say they would just go online, look for the cheapest ticket. And we wanted to get into a business where we could have a deeper connection with people and just happen again to kind of stumble upon the mortgage business. And as you guys mentioned, it’s dream to own home. And so when they’re going to come to you for home, you may talk to them eight, nine, ten times, build a relationship with these people and they could become lifelong customers continue to come back. Now you’ve got a business. You’ve got somebody that can, you know, take care of one time and they come back maybe five, seven years and again again where is ticket world. The ticket world wasn’t like that. They were just going online and buying the cheapest ticket. So we had just stumbled into the entrepreneurial world. We’re both going to be teachers.

Henry Kaestner: You got to wonder if who that person is. They came up with that marketing campaign for coke and if they’ve known what’s ended up becoming a Brock and his brother and what they started.

William Norvell: That’s amazing. Hey, it’s amazing.

Rusty Rueff: This is Netflix, Pepsi. Where’s my jet? I mean, come on. You were working a promotion there. That was good

Brock Bukowsky: It was fun, man. My friends thought I was crazy. They thought we were crazy, that it was good. And that kind of gave us a little bit of a bang because we had no money left. A little bankroll to launch this online ticket business evolved into this online mortgage business. So with Brand expertise and Google, we knew we could get people searching for mortgages to our site, to our website, but we wanted to find something that kind of separated us from everybody else. And we said, Well, we need to do people buying homes. We don’t want to do the refinance stuff because that’s kind of so cyclical. You know, rates go down, you’ve got a lot of revised rates go up, you’ve got nothing. Whereas hopefully in the purchase market, people are buying homes pretty consistently. We were doing that for about six months and then we end up we got a lead from a veteran and we looked into it. We’d heard you could do a VA loan that the government backs, that the veteran could do a no money down loan for a great rate. So we did this loan for the veteran. It took us a ton of time to learn it. Government, lots of paperwork, more than normal. But we got this veteran into their home and just saw the joy like no money down great rate and man, if we can get good at doing these V.A. loans there are a lot of work but we get really it make it simple for everybody and let’s just focus on just doing these. Let’s get better than anybody at the country and doing a VA home loan and let’s just do that and keep our blinders on and just go after that. Nothing else. We acquired a VA home loan domain, and then from that point on, I started focusing more and more on Google and getting when people would search for VA home loan, we would rank toward the top. And that’s been our since. And after that first year, about 2003, we’ve only done VA loans for for almost 20 years now.

William Norvell: Wow. That’s amazing. My co-founder was a marine for a decade. So you’re getting a lead after this for sure. And so I just have a special place that they’re building this business with him for a couple of years just for what those families go through, you know, in these situations. And so I can see why that would just be a niche that really sticks and takes off. And also, you know, such a different place, to enter yourself in the mortgage business.

Brock Bukowsky: It’s so incredible to watch and our coworkers as we get to help these veterans. Someone couldn’t get into a home without the V.A. loan. Right. And the way they’re taken care of. And then it just feels so good for everybody. You know, we can really rally around that. And I wish I could say, hey, we. To do this business because we wanted to help people reach their dream of homeownership and we wanted to serve veterans. But that’s not it. We lucked into it, you know, But looking back, you know, I do believe, you know, God certainly had his hand in this. And just that has grown this, you know, again, just seems like total luck to me. We didn’t have this great vision, but he took it is he’s this platform and now it’s more and more people. And for us to be able to be talking faith, to work more and more people hearing about Jesus. And it’s just it’s been so fun to be part of.

William Norvell: Amen amen and tell us just, you know, and then we don’t have enough time to go super deep. But. Well, first of all, I love that you tell the story that way. Could you be shocked how many people revise the story to talk about the brilliant insight they had from day one and how they were the wizard that saw everything that no one else saw? And I think there’s so many entrepreneurial journeys that are more like yours that, you know, hey, you ran into this corner and then you ran to that corner and then you eventually saw what was there. Right. But I think so many aspiring entrepreneurs think they need to see the whole vision before they start. Right. And so I’m grateful that you tell the story that way. And I just want to give you a couple of minutes to I mean, I’m just guessing here. I don’t know the organization. I mean, employees in every stage that work like a typical mortgage business. And my question is, how do you manage a culture of people at that scale in all those different locations? And just how do you bring that heart that you clearly have for what you do to everyone in all those different locales?

Brock Bukowsky: Next, we are fortunate enough most of us are here in Columbia, Missouri.

William Norvell: It’s amazing.

Brock Bukowsky: Yeah, so that’s been fantastic, right? And that was even, you know, after the COVID stuff that the push to get everybody back to work, we didn’t have a problem. We’re all back at work. And it was one of those things like, hey, let’s get back and be around each other. And everybody being in Columbia, Missouri, most of us, you know, that helped got a horribly long drive to get to the office, you know, maybe 20 minutes, 30 minutes at most. Did want to get back and be around each other. And it’s just been that I think that culture that has been built, I mean, we haven’t built it, but our coworkers are just people from the very beginning. We’re hanging around each other, we’re doing life together, and that’s just been huge for our culture. Again, just getting people where they want to be at work. I mean, I really don’t want to be at home unless it was nice to be at home because, you know, sure, it’s done. But they want when people start to come back, like, man, we miss this so much, just being around these people that we love and care about, that’s been a great thing. I think our values, I don’t know how deep we want to get into like our values thing, but values have been a huge part of our culture. We’ve been fortunate enough to where people, I think really drive a lot of companies. You just maybe the values are up on the wall or whatever it is. You get them on the first day of work, but then you don’t hear about them much where our values have really driven us. I don’t think that much changed when I became a Christian. You know, the big thing that changed at VU is I wanted people to hear about Jesus. In the year before. It wasn’t even a concept for me to talk about faith at work, So that was a big thing. But also, I think when I became a Christian, it also became this like, Why are we here? And my friends, why are they here? Are they coming here just for a paycheck or, you know, why are you coming through these doors in the morning? And so it was probably I think about a year after I had my faith transformation, I sent an email out to the company and I said, Hey, I want to hear from each of you. Please give me a response. Why are you here? Are you? Is it for a paycheck? I know you get to get your paycheck, but is it anything else? What motivates you to walk through the doors each morning? And so we got responses from. There was a few hundred of us at the company at the time, compiled everybody’s responses. And then we took them and we had like an exec retreat. And we went through everything and pulled out the commonalities and created our company value statement. And I think it felt really good for everybody to know that they were the ones that created this value statement. It wasn’t something that we just, you know, a couple owners or execs launched. And out of that, we had this big values rollout and then we hired someone to just be in charge of our values to make sure that they’re in our face every day and that they’re part of every review that you had. If you go meet with your boss, we’re going to talk through our values. And those have, I think, really driven our culture in the mission that came out of that was enhancing lives every day. We want to have a positive impact on the lives of our clients, of our coworkers, each other and of our community. And that’s kind of the mission that I think rallies everybody together. So we’re kind of always thinking of those three groups. It’s not just close on a mortgage, you know, we want to take care of veterans, but we want to take care of each other and we want to take care of our community. And I think that that. Values roll out that the employees were a part of. I think it’s stayed over this how many years it has been out.

Henry Kaestner: That’s a great example, establishing values, asking people to just effectively crowdsourcing it from your employees. Great way to set that up. Great lesson. We’re at the point in time now on the podcast where we like to go through something called the Lightning Round. So Lightning Round is probably as it sounds. We’re going to ask you questions. You have to keep your answers to less than 30 seconds. There is a buzzer that is in your chair that will go off. If you don’t. It’s a little weird. You can wonder how we got access to your office, but we’re going to go through them real quickly. And then Williams going to close this out with a bit about what you’re hearing from God as you continue to go through the Bible. Okay. Number one, you’re in Columbia, Missouri. I’ve never been there. It sounds like you grew up there. You at least went to school there and you’ve chosen that as a place to grow your business, 30 seconds or less. What’s the reason for me or anybody else? Listeners podcast to visit Columbia, Missouri.

Brock Bukowsky: The people. Just incredible people.

Henry Kaestner: Okay, There you go. All right. Number two, what’s a charity or ministry that you and your wife like to give to you?

Brock Bukowsky: We want to give 90% of our money to organizations that are going to make Jesus know. Right. And one that we are really behind is Acts 29, which is launching churches all over the world.

Henry Kaestner: Yeah. Okay. That’s a great one. Thank you.

Rusty Rueff: How many mortgages do you think your company’s made in its history?

Brock Bukowsky: Oh, we did over 100,000 last year, but we have to continue to grow. I should know that number. Maybe 500,000. Wow.

Rusty Rueff: Wow. And what’s the furthest location away from where you are that a mortgage has been made to your company?

Brock Bukowsky: Hawaii. We do quite a bit in Hawaii. There’s a lot of veterans in Hawaii.

Rusty Rueff: I love it. I love it.

William Norvell: What’s the current price of a missouri football ticket?

Brock Bukowsky: Are they gonna up the price?

William Norvell: I know we got you in the FCC thing.

Brock Bukowsky: That’s right. FCC has been fined like, 80 bucks now. It was 26 bucks.

William Norvell: No, no desire. You’re done. No desire to get back in to the coke ticket business.

Brock Bukowsky: It was super fun. It was super fun. We’ll stick in mortgages.

William Norvell: What’s one thing you hope for for Veterans United here in the last eight months of 2023?

Brock Bukowsky: Yeah. I mean, you hear about these, you know, there was this revival that happened or was that at Kentucky or whatever at the university kind of, you know, Asbury. I want to freaking revival here in mid-Missouri, you know, in Columbia. I want a revival. And I want that to just kind of come through. VU veterans United and let’s just have a revival where people are talking about Jesus, love Jesus and they would want worship.

Henry Kaestner: Maybe riff on that one. So one of the things you talked about in terms of you kind of faith was this kind of sense of not having boundaries. We talked about confessional a little bit. Some of the things you look at. Well, I didn’t know much about revivals until about a month and a half ago when I started looking at the Asbury Revival and the Hebrides revival in the Welsh revival. And the commonality for those listeners who are listening to this, who want to understand, well, what is the recipe for I want revival in my community, in my business, in my life. What is the singular thing that you think I found or that you have found as you look at revivals? Hmm. I think I have an answer, but it’s lightning round. You’re supposed to answer the questions, but obviously I want to chime in on that because revival is something that we can absolutely pray for. It obviously transforms communities.

Brock Bukowsky: Mm hmm. I don’t. I have no idea.

Henry Kaestner: So here’s here’s the thing. So I look into a little bit because all sudden I didn’t know a thing about revival is I’m an elder in the PCA church. We don’t talk about revivals enough. And so I got into it because I was asked to speak at a conference on transformation. I’m like, all these people talk about revivals. I want to look into it. The Hebrides revival is a great example. Three guys in a barn, Hebrides, 1953. They’re praying for a revival and one of them who’d been in Scripture that day and Psalm 24 said, You can’t approach the mountain unless you have a pure heart and clean hands. He said, You know, we had rain all day for a revival or maybe have been several days. Like maybe we should be praying about where our hearts not pure and where hands are not clean. And so they did that. The Asbury revival has started, according to some of the interviews that went on, is because at the end of the worship service, one of the students got up and confessed his sin in front of his friends, the people that are gathered worship service. And that’s something it’s really been impactful for me, maybe because I’ve got my son, my middle son’s at the University of Notre Dame, which is a Catholic university, and we’re talking about the different ways that Catholics versus Protestants tend to confess their sins to one another. But I’m like, however it happens, it seems that we need to be doing more of that as a community. Yeah.

Brock Bukowsky: That’s really good.

William Norvell: If we don’t give him the same 32nd time clock during the night?

Henry Kaestner: Apparently not.

William Norvell: But regardless, I am the person who has to bring this to a close, and that unfortunately, has to happen right now. So this has been such an awesome podcast. But what we do love to do, we always want to leave room for exactly what Henry was talking about is God’s word and his scripture and how it can continually come alive each and every day. And so we would love to invite you to share with us a place that God may have you in His Word, whether that’s something you’ve been meditating on for a while or a story that comes to mind as I ask you the question or something you read this morning on the way into work just to share God’s Word and where it may be hitting you today with our audience.

Brock Bukowsky: Yeah, I’d say the last couple of weeks really been just this idea in my trying to please people or my trying to please God. And this was in Galatians a couple of weeks ago, and I think Paul said in Galatians 1 once we’re trying to please people are God. And I’m just I know I’m wired to want to please people and I want people to think good of me. But I know that I should not be thinking that I just please, God, you, everything else will work out. And I even I’ve had a quote I’ve looked at for a long time, even before I was a Christian. John Wooden says, Let’s be more concerned with our character than our reputation. And I think we’ve as a company live that way. Let’s just not worry about reputation. Let’s take care of our character and everything else will probably follow the same way here. I need my audience, the one I need to please God, I want to please God and everything else fall into place. Don’t worry about what other people are thinking of me all the time, which unfortunately, I do all the time.

William Norvell: Amen, what a great word for entrepreneurs, too. I mean, just the people that have to stand up every day. Right? And, you know, you have to know where your identity is rooted or it will not go well. For most people, there are just too many nos in the world as you’re trying to build a business. So I think about that too, is like, but if you have that singular focus on them, am I doing what God asked me to do today, well, then all the rest follows.

Henry Kaestner: Brock, thank you. Thank you for sharing the really important message about creating a culture that allows people actually bring their whole selves to work, to be able to talk about their faith and one that can just flourish the concept of the marketplace of ideas in a way that really points to truth. So thank you for that. Grateful for you in your time.

Brock Bukowsky: And I appreciate you guys. Thank you for what you’re doing.

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Faith in Leadership: Ten Tenets for Navigating the Workplace

— by Bill Yoh

Most businesses are not faith-forward. Even if the founders or leaders are people of faith, many companies do not showcase faith principles in their vision, values, and other forms of corporate or operating principles (with notable exceptions of course). 

I don’t view this as inherently good or bad; it just is.

Given this reality, how do you—as a person of faith and a business leader—reconcile your spiritual life with a professional environment that likely does not encourage God talk? In this article, I offer ten ways that faith fuels who I am in secular work environments, influencing how I lead, how I drive culture, and how I live my core values. Take a moment to consider how these tenets align with your own principles. What could you add, adjust, or adopt for your own situation?

My Ten Tenets for Expressing Faith in Leadership

  1. Servant Leadership

    Jesus’s earthly ministry centered on serving those who followed him. He “did not come to be served but to serve” (Matthew 20:28). As an owner involved in business development efforts, I always tell our sales teams that I am there to help them, and that they should see themselves as the chess players and me as a chess piece. The organization will be successful only if their moves are successful. Serving them and their success is my priority, and in this way, I strive to tie my faith in with leadership.

  2. Vision

    I often hear people lament the demise of culture. They bemoan how secular and pluralistic our lives have become. They say we need to get back to how things “used to be,” to reclaim the values and (religious) convictions that used to undergird our way of life. I offer the life and teachings of Jesus Christ as a counter-solution. While he often went back to scripture to point out how the leaders of the day had twisted the sacred word for human gain, his main message was not to go back but to surge forward, to envision and create new ways of relating to one another.

    As people who fuse our faith and leadership, we need to go and do likewise, leveraging the past without going backward, instead creating more unified organizations, committed to more unifying visions.

  3. Culture Change

    A skill I have developed over my career is identifying opportunities for improving workplace culture and marshaling resources to move forward. The wonky yet fitting business term for this is change management. 

    I believe the most successful change manager of all time was Jesus Christ. In a public ministry (a.k.a., career) that lasted just three years, he laid a foundation and established a direction with just a couple handfuls of followers that today compels 2.4 billion people to identify as believers. While no one will ever achieve that level of culture change, we can all learn from his example to improve our own little corners of the corporate world.

  4. Ministry

    It’s a scary term, I know. Most of us will never minister from an altar or a pulpit, but we all minister. We are all called to discern and deploy our unique talents and gifts to help others. We are called to have our faith impact our leadership. That’s ministry!

    People frequently say things like, “I need to volunteer more.” My response is usually: “Yes . . . and.” The “and” is an encouragement to look at what you do at work—the place you likely spend most of your time—as ministry. How can you recast your role and your duties as a deployment of your talents and gifts, as your unique way of living into the person you were created to be?

  5. Dignity

    A core value of mine and a core message of the Bible is that everyone is born with the God-given right to dignity. As an owner of a business with tens of thousands of employees and another business with ten seasonal workers, I steadfastly believe in the dignity of work, how earning a job and earning an income provide self-esteem and self-worth, that what people do for work matters—well beyond the ability to put roofs over heads, clothes on backs, and food on tables. Helping colleagues advance their careers is a direct way for me to fuel their dignity and live my core values.

  6. Accountability

    This value—along with its close cousin, integrity—is part of virtually every business’s ethos. Our family business’s motto is, “We Do What We Say®,” symbolizing our commitment to professional accountability. As a recent convert to Roman Catholicism, one of my most meaningful experiences is going to confession. The process of reflecting on what I have done wrong, admitting that out loud, and then being held accountable and being absolved by God’s grace, is a profound way for me to build my character muscles. The ways in which I live and support accountability at work resonate with this important component of my faith life.

  7. Inclusion

    Diversity, equity, and inclusion are common terms in our company and throughout the modern workplace. These efforts strive to ensure that organizations reflect the demographics of their communities and provide environments of respect and validation. They are pillars of the Gospel message as well, that the marginalized and the oppressed—“the least of these”—are represented and valued. Now more than ever, one of the best things leaders can say is, “I see you, and you matter.”

  8. Vernacular

    While Jesus referenced scripture from time to time during his ministry, most of his communication was plain speak, relating to community members in everyday language. Yet behind his messages were spiritual priorities. Many people, especially nonbelievers, find it hard to respond to faith in leadership when concepts are expressed in theological terms. Or ancient Greek. These days, I enjoy the theological and intellectual exercise of expressing my spiritual priorities in the vernacular of the workplace, creating clear lines of sight from my personal ethos to how I provide direction, feedback, and support.

  9. Microinequities

    This term has existed for a few decades but still resonates for me. What are the small, often invisible ways I exhibit discriminatory or belittling behavior toward certain employees, maybe by how I greet coworkers differently or how much time I spend with certain people over others? Jesus was consistent in how he treated others, always with respect. I wonder when and where I continue to have blindspots in how I treat those whose facets of identity differ from mine? This kind of self reflection is a practical way I can demonstrate my faith in leadership.

  10. Whole Self

    A key priority of our corporate culture is ensuring everyone can bring their whole self to work and feel safe expressing their opinions. A core component of my faith life is that everyone was created in the image of God and God created each of us differently. We are wired to interact with each other, not despite our differences but in light of them. How can I, as a leader and a colleague, help others bring their whole personhood to the workplace, to feel comfortable showcasing themselves with the trust that they will be seen and heard?

One of my favorite Bible passages—Psalm 116:9 “I shall walk before the Lord in the land of the living”—is a good place to conclude. I try to be the arms and legs of Jesus (“walking before the Lord”) and I try to do so in all environments, including work (“in the land of the living”). I pray that some of these tenets will help you do similarly, to live a more authentic life, practice your unique ministry, and be the best professional version of yourself you can be.  

A lifelong writer and award-winning author, Bill has published two books, as well as business and literary articles and original poetry. Our Way, his first book, received a Gold Award from the Nonfiction Writers Association. His second book, Unvarnished Faith, about a mission trip to Nicaragua and the life lessons it yielded, is now also available for purchase. He has produced an award-winning feature film about human relationships.


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Episode 249 – Hope is an Accelerator With Junita Flowers

Not many bakers at the local Farmers Market get a chance to do a TED Talk, but Junita Flowers has a knack for rising above the crowd.

The founder of Junita’s Jar got her start after leaving an abusive relationship and looking for ways to restore joy and hope in her life and the life of her kids. She turned to baking: a childhood hobby that carried positive memories and helped her heal from her broken situation.

Now, those cookies are being sold in major retailers across the country. 

She joins the show to talk about the challenges of the entrepreneurial journey and how hope has been an accelerator for her as she’s started and scaled her business. 

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Episode Transcript


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Rusty Rueff: Hello, everyone, and welcome back to the Faith Driven Entrepreneur podcast. We’re so glad you’re here once again this week on this show and in pretty much all of our content, we never want to shy away from the challenges that life throws at us as entrepreneurs, or even just as humans. Living in a broken world means we often encounter broken situations. But how can we redeem our brokenness? Well, that’s what we’re going to dive into today with our guest, Junita Flowers. Junita is the founder of a large baked goods company called Junita’s Jars, which she started in her kitchen and now has scaled to be in targets and other retail chains all across the country. The business began as a way to get back on her feet after an abusive relationship, desperate for some sense of joy in a tragic situation. She returned to an activity she loved as a child, and it gave her something even more hope. Today, she unpacks her journey and shares how hope can be an accelerator for greater peace and greater business. Let’s open up this cookie jar and dive right in.

Henry Kaestner: Welcome back to the Faith Driven Entrepreneur podcast. I’m here as always, or most of the time with William and Rusty, William, Rusty is supporting these. I don’t know if we’re going to have this on video or not, but Rusty is easily the most fashionable of the three of us.

William Norvell: By a landslide.

Henry Kaestner: By a landslide. He’s got like the coolest glasses on ever.

Rusty Rueff: It’s not very hard, guys. It’s never. Oh.

William Norvell: That hurts more than I thought it would. Honestly.

Henry Kaestner: It speaks to the truth, though. He does. He really does. So low bar. Yeah. So I want to ask each of you before we get going. Share with our audience real quickly. One thing that you’re each most excited about, about the way that you see God at work in the world. William

William Norvell: Wow. Just in general. Oh, gosh. So I know we don’t like to timestamp things, but coming after Easter, it’s hard not to. I got to go home to Alabama for Easter to surprise my family with my five year old son, which was awesome. They didn’t know he was going to be able to make it. They don’t get to see him that much because it’s across the country. And we walked into a random church that I’d never been in before, right? You know, we were back home and didn’t have a home church. Long story. But just amazing to me that just the body of Christ and how it can work and how you can walk into a random building that knows no one and how people welcome you in and how I knew where they were going. I knew they were talking about specifically on Easter, I could celebrate the resurrection 3000 miles from my home and feel at home and feel with people. And so just so inspired by the global body of Christ and just how we all have so much. I know maybe I’m inspired by this because I feel like so much these days is about the fighting of different people and things and Christians. But we cling to the resurrection of Christ. We cling to the fact that we have won. Death has been defeated. What else do we have to fight about? And for at least one day in one random small town church in Florence, Alabama, I got to celebrate that and it was amazing.

Henry Kaestner: Outstanding, Rusty

Rusty Rueff: You know, for me, Henry, it can be a pretty dark time in the world right now. You know, every time we turn around and something dark has happened and you start to, you know, question and lose a little hope. And I think what God is speaking and I’m seeing and we just went through a horrific event in my hometown area in Louisville, Kentucky. Yeah. And a lot of friends, people one of the businesses I owned right around the block going there this coming weekend for another event and hotel I’m staying at is on the same block as where that happened. And so it’s really it’s really struck, Patty and I, that, you know, this dark world sometimes is really real, you know, even though we sometimes maybe you feel sheltered from it. But you know, what continues to be revealed to me is that in the darkest moment, God’s light shines the brightest, that that’s when we see the light, when it’s in the darkest time. And a little thing happened that just reminded me of that this week, this past week was there’s a retired pastor in Louisville, Bob Russell. He’s got a great ministry, but he created South East Christian Church. And he was asked by a radio personality, as I understand it, because I saw this on Twitter to say a little prayer for Louisville. And as Bob said, he thought that was going to be a 30 seconds prayer, but it actually turned out to be a three minutes and nine seconds prayer. And that prayer went viral throughout the city, praying for hope, praying for the families of the victims, praying for peace in the city, praying for law enforcement, government, all people involved. And it just reminded me in the darkest moment, God still shows up, you know, And we just got done celebrating Easter. And I’m always, always reminded, you know, when did they find that Jesus, you know, had come from the tomb, you know, And they went there in the dark of the night, not in the light. And he left that tomb in the dark of the night to show us the light of the world. Yeah. So that’s really been speaking. What about you?

Henry Kaestner: While to build on what William is talking about. I just am so impressed and grateful for the global church and just there’s something about seeing God more fully through people from different cultures. And we’re just, you know, so much of the way we got start, of course, together is through a blog in this podcast, in the conference. But really within the last couple of years, so much of the growth of the ministry has come from groups, men and women getting together all over the world and going through the foundation’s course and then monthly groups after that. And based on story and teaching and facilitated conversation, I get a chance to facilitate two different cohorts of entrepreneurs from Africa, most of them from Lagos, Nigeria. And it was so cool just to see them process through the marks together, the call to create identity in Christ and to go through that video series together. And I’ve got a chance to lead a lot of groups, and I shouldn’t have favorites among their groups, but there is something about doing this with people across ten different time zones and just hearing how God is speaking to them as they overcome obstacles and challenges that are different than mine and with the hope that is though the same as mine. And there’s something about uniting us, whether we’re in Florence, Alabama, whether it’s Louisville, Kentucky, in Rusty, your story from Louisville is convicting that God’s light absolutely shines. It’s always shining. It absolutely Then shines maybe more clearly in darkness. And we’re seeing that. And God’s light is just encouragement does and times which are bleak. And, you know, today’s story is really building on that. Junita Flowers is a new friend of the movement. She was referred to us by Joe Sexton, who we’ve had on the podcast before. And hers is a story coming out of challenge and God redeeming something in a magnificent way that’s reached some great scale. And Junita, thank you very much for being with us. It’s just really encouraging for us to be able to hear your story and we’re just going to jump right in. I want to just hear some of the basics as we get started. You scaled a cookie company to the point that you’re in targets across the country, massive scale. What was that path like? So the beginning part of the path that brought you from baking in your kitchen. Overcoming adversity to a nationwide business. Let’s talk about the beginning right through to the adversity part, please.

Junita Flowers: I think going back to my childhood and thank you so much for having me here today. I’m so excited to.

Henry Kaestner: It is great to have you on

Junita Flowers: talk with you all. I think going back to my childhood, I’m one of eight and I’m the third oldest and so I had a lot of chores and responsibilities growing up. And I just knew because, you know, we all had a job in the kitchen and washing dishes and cooking the meals and helping my mom do all those things. I was not going to have a job where I was going to be in the kitchen. I was going to protest the kitchen because I was going to be a hamburger helper and like all the things. So it started as a child, but there was so much joy in the kitchen, even though I didn’t think I’d ever have a job doing something in the kitchen. But there was so much connection. My grandmother would come over once a week and help my mom prepare meals every Wednesday. And so we just connected in ways that I didn’t even realize was happening as a child. So fast forward to my life as an adult. I was married and it was an abusive relationship. And when I was trying to find ways to cope because I wanted my family to work and I felt like if I stayed and, you know, if I worked harder, I prayed harder, if I was quieter, nicer, like just trying to do all the things that maybe it would get better. And it wasn’t changing. But I needed a way to figure out how to cope with the chaos. And so I went back to baking, went back to what I did growing up, where all of those beautiful memories were made, connections were had, and so it was like I was able to escape the chaos of everyday life every time I went in my kitchen to bake. And I didn’t think I was starting a baking business, it literally was coping and trying to figure out how to make it through the day. And then in 2015, when I decided that my marriage was not going to work and I was going to have to forge ahead, I knew that I was at rock bottom. I knew that I felt good every time I baked. I knew that if I started as business because I knew I want to have my own business. I was 12 years old, that now was the time because I had nothing to lose. I couldn’t go any lower in life. I felt like God couldn’t take anything else away from me. And so I thought this was a safe time to start a business. And so I went through my divorce in 2015, about 12 months I struggled with depression, so I wasn’t able to really dig in to the business. But fast forward to 2018, when I was really on the other side and was like, Okay, I’m really ready to try this because baking and through chaos and hard times, you know, just really was an outlet for me. And I decided I want to do the same thing for others. And so I started baking and I started farmer’s markets, you know, kind of hustling everywhere, telling everyone I owned a business. Everywhere I went, I took cookies. And in 2020 we had the conversation with in 2019, I did my TED talk and the world was just in so much pain and turmoil in 2020 and everyone was looking for sources of hope. And so some of this team at Target heard my TED talk and I was invited to a meeting and that’s what got the conversation started. And I was able to pitch the Junita’s Jar to target, and we launched in Target in June of 2022.

Rusty Rueff: That is awesome.

Henry Kaestner: That is awesome. I mean, there are a bunch of things that Rusty and Wiliam, I hear about that, I love the hustling part. I’m telling everybody about what I’m doing because I want to ask you, Junita, not every person who’s baking cookies at a farmer’s market gets asked to do a TED talk, right? What was it? How did that come about? And what do they say? Like, we’ve got to have her on.

Junita Flowers: So in going back to 2015, when I was really I was going through divorce, I was battling depression. Like literally all my kids would get up. I put them on the school bus and I get back in bed and I’d be in bed all day until it was time for me to get them off the bus. I literally didn’t have the strength, the motivation, the focus to do much for myself, but I knew that I had to figure this out and get into deeper of kind of how hope really kind of came in. But speaking to how I just kind of decided business was the way to go, I was so broken. I was a stay at home mom for eight years, so I had stepped away from my career. I didn’t know what I was good at. I felt like I wasn’t good at anything. And so I started. I went back and pulled up my old job performance evaluations, and I started asking people things they thought that I was good at. I had to rely on other people to give me the confidence in what I was good at. And so in my performance evaluations, it was this thing about speaking, and I hated speaking, but that was some of the things that kept coming up in my performance reviews. And so I started just kind of dabbling in it here and there. I would do a little bit at church and then I got a part time job doing some campaign talks for the United Way when they were doing their campaign season for fundraising with companies. And I got great feedback. And so it started to build the confidence that I needed to think, okay, maybe there’s something to this. So then I started. I knew I want to start this business. I started going to all these meetings and events and one of our libraries which just closed, but it was 99 years old. It was the James J. Hill Library. The story was it’s on the historic registry. They had all these classes and things for. Entrepreneurs. And they asked me to sit on a panel. And then from there they asked me to blog for them, and I blogged for them for two years. Once a month I had a blog. And from there, you know, that just really start to build my customer base or my follower list. And it was from there that one of the people that was leading the TED talk [….] I asked if I would be open to auditioning for a TED Talk, but that was the second one, the first one that I auditioned for I didn’t get. But so then when I didn’t get it, I just started attending TED talks. I started listening to them all the time and, you know, like, how are people conveying their messages? What are they saying? How are they being able to convey this message? If I’m not a researcher, I’m not, you know, somebody from the world of academia. So how do people have these messages of inspiration and how do they communicate that? And so from there, I had the opportunity to audition and the rest was history.

Rusty Rueff: Such a good story, you know Junita you’re also reinforcing something I’ve always believed. You know, a cookie can fix a lot of problems in life.

Junita Flowers: Absolutely.

Rusty Rueff: And yeah, just go for a cookie.

Henry Kaestner: Ice cream, too.

Rusty Rueff: Yeah. Yeah, that’s right. Henry’s about. He loves ice cream, but for me, a cookie works. So I hope our listeners are listening closely because you’re actually starting to reveal to us a recipe, a recipe for how to live and how to be successful coming through something. So you’ve already given us two things which are great. One is you talked about hustling, right? That you just hustle, right? And yes, yes, sometimes we have no other choice. You know, we hustle. And then the second thing you said is, you know, I just grind. You just kept grinding, right? You just kept doing you kept doing it. You just kept doing it over and over and over. But you’ve also talked about part of your secret formula that you thought about was working hard, being kind and praying, which is awesome. Part of the recipe, right? Working hard, being kind and praying, but not always. When you just put the recipe out, does it come out like, do you think it’s going to come out? So life got messy for you, right? And so you’ve talked about that, but you took those three things and made them important. Do you think about the formula any different today?

Junita Flowers: I do. And so I grew up in church. I felt like we were in church more than the pastor was. That’s how I mean, like we church was just what we did. And so, you know, part of that is if you kind of live the life and you make the sacrifices and you’re praying and you’re kind and you’re actually being the hands and feet of Jesus that you know, not that you’re going to have, you know, this plate of ease, but you think that life is going to work in your favor because we talk about favor. But when I went through my divorce and when I was felt like I lost everything, I questioned my faith walk. I’m like, really? This is what happens. Like, how can God like at this point, my father had passed away and I’m like, God, if my father was alive, he would not allow me to hurt like this. And here it is. You can do anything, and you’re just allowing me to suffer. I mean, I wasn’t being truthful. I was angry with God for a while. And so during that time when I was really just battling depression and I was just getting my kids on the school bus and then laying in bed all day sleeping, I couldn’t do anything getting up to get them off the bus. It was one day I spent like about nine months in and I couldn’t really sleep anymore. And God has a way of getting a message to us in a way. He knows we’ll hear it and receive it. And so I’m laying there and feeling like I’ve lost everything. And it’s like, if you’re not in this place of being so broken, it may seem like duh Junita Yeah, we know that. But it was like he just spoke to me. Now I’m looking out the window and I was like, But Junita what if there’s more to your life than this? Because I had lost, like, all hope. And although my life didn’t change in that moment, my heart did. My heart became open again. So then now he has a way to speak to me and guide me on this path of this entrepreneurial journey that I thought I was going to go on. But I didn’t know what was going to happen with it. So it took that faith, it took that hope. Just that heart changed in that moment to make me open, to be able to take on this journey that I had no idea what was going to happen. I had no seed money. I had a friends and family around with literally like my family buying cookies. Like, I mean, there was no big sort of infusion that was going to help me get this business off the ground. But I had the foundation. I had the hope that if I just do this the way that God is guiding me to do it, everything else will come. And it’s taught me that even as I’m going through it today, you’re not going to know everything Junita, even though, you know, an entrepreneurship should be supposed to have the plan and you got to work the plan. You had to work the plan. You write the plan, but then you let go of the plan and then you’ve got to be willing to allow something that’s bigger than you that’s happening outside of you that has nothing to do with cookies. Even though it’s in a cookie. Let those things come to life. As you begin to build this business and allow your life to be an example for others as they’re trying to figure out how do they take their next step?

Rusty Rueff: You know, Henry spoke at the beginning when we were riffing back and forth about the importance of community and groups and people supporting you. And in that process, where you were going through this moment of brokenness and and you started to talk about it, obviously, with others. Was there a group of people that came along side, you know, who were they?

Junita Flowers: Absolutely. So my family just was invaluable to support me on the journey. But one of the biggest things I did, there’s a ministry called Divorce Care. So it’s a faith based ministry that supports individuals that are battling divorce. And then they also had divorce care for kids. So I had this thing for 13 weeks and we actually get two cycles of it. And so I’m dealing with the healing part, right? So I can, you know, really figure out how do I navigate this thing that sort of seems like it’s contradicting my faith because if I do things, be kind, pray and work hard. I’m not supposed to be in this situation, but I had this group that was walking with me to help me figure out how do I find my way back to God and really allow my heart to heal. And then I’m a part of the James J. Hill Library on the business side, connecting with people that have, you know, already gone before me and built businesses. And I’m getting mentoring and I’m doing these practice pitches and, you know, presenting my ideas and I’m getting feedback. And so between both the faith community and the business community, there are these people that are pouring into me in a time or I’m just trying to figure out how to get my feet off the ground that was so valuable. And still to this day from divorce care, like there’s friends that I met in that group that I still am good friends with today. So we have a story that we continue to support each other with. And of course, and the business community continues to grow and support me as I grow and take on new task in the business. I have no idea what to do, but they continue to support me, help me to grow and make Junita’s Jar what it is today.

Rusty Rueff: That’s great. That’s great. It’s another part of the recipe, right? We’ve we’ve got to have that community. We’ve got to have those groups that help us through. I want you to dive a little deeper into the word hope. So hope. Can we throw it around all the time? Right. I used to say, in business, hope is not a strategy. You know, people will. Well, I hope that’s going to happen. I hope that’s going to happen. Yeah, well, you know, let’s eliminate that word hope until we get something done. So it can be used in a very superficial way there, but it can also be, you know, such the down deep embedded in it is the thing that just helps us get from now to the next step to the next step to the next step. So I want you to go a little deeper about what hope means to you then and now and then, you know, just share a little bit. You know, how can other entrepreneurs who are listening here, how can they, from your perspective, become more hopeful?

Junita Flowers: Right. And so when you think about grief and brokenness and pain and even despair, joy is not going to be something that’s going to get to you very easily. But if you can grasp the concept of hope, you can have hope and still be in a state of brokenness because it begins to change the game. Because my life didn’t change when I just decided to be open to the fact that there might be something more to my life than what’s happened for the last 12 months. That was serious despair and brokenness. So hope could get to me and anchor my heart in a way joy never would have. And although it doesn’t change immediately, it got me to consider something beyond what I was in in that moment. So it just said, okay, I’m willing to consider that maybe there is something more. And so we know that when you open your heart to something more, that that’s kind of the anchor that gets you going. There’s something more and deeper and deeper because now I’m open and we know that God speaks to our heart. So when my heart is open and he knows how to get the message to us, so that will receive it and be able to take action on it. So it’s the hope that really got me to consider, Well, maybe my life isn’t over. Maybe this is it for nothing. Maybe God didn’t forsake me. I don’t know what it looks like and I don’t even know what he could possibly have for me. But now I’m kind of open to considering that maybe there’s something more. So Hope was the thing that got me to at least consider that there was redemption in the mess that I found myself in. And so then once I was able to consider that as I got stronger as my drive to just kind of get up and do a little bit more, I was now thinking about something beyond the misery I’m now considering. Well, do you know if there’s something more? What does that look like? So now I’m searching. So hope was the game changer that took me from only thinking about my life was over, that it never was going to get any better. But everyone and everyone’s life and everyone’s family was so much better than mine because theirs was perfect or whole or whatever word you want to use. And mine was broken and shattered. Hope was the thing that got me to think something different, and that was the catalyst that got me even open to consider that I was going to start this business. I remember in divorce I was like, God, please don’t make me the poster child for healing after divorce or domestic violence. I was like, Can you please not? Can you please make that my ministry? But then somehow, as I’m just starting this cookie business, still not sure what does that have to do with relationship violence and what I do with hope. But I knew what I felt every time I would bake. And then I was open because hope was the thing that opened my heart. Now I’m open for God to get a message to me and through me, through this thing. That’s a cookie that people wouldn’t think hope in a cookie, but it’s so much hope tied into Junita’s Jar in that cookie.

Rusty Rueff: That’s awesome. Was the cookie also the first glimpse of joy?

Junita Flowers: You know what it was?

Rusty Rueff: Yeah, because the way you say it, I love that you said despair and brokenness. You know, joy couldn’t get to me, but hope can pull me through. You know, So am I hearing your voice when you said, you know, and I got been kitchen, you know, feels like there’s a little glimpse of joy there the first time you started to do that.

Junita Flowers: So my kids would be in there and like, I would laugh like I wasn’t laughing in those 12 months, but I’d be in the kitchen because my kids, like one day I dropped the whole pan of cookies because I was exhausted and my kids are like, Make it for like we’re laughing. And I didn’t realize I hadn’t laughed in so long, but it was like, and still, this wasn’t a business yet. This is kind of me making cookies because everybody was still having babies and they’re having baby shower. So I’m making cookies for all the baby showers just as a hobby. And so I’m finding joy and laughter that was gone just from being in the kitchen baking cookies. So it was literally like this glimpse of, again, not necessarily a business yet, but like, wow, like this feels good.

William Norvell: That’s awesome. And, you know, I’m going to lean into that because, you know, obviously sometimes God calls into some things that are a little more stable with hope, you know, than a brand new business that needs all kinds of attention catches up. I mean, you’re four and a half years, five years into this, I imagine in a consumer products company. I mean, you’re just getting started, right? Where is the company? What challenges are you facing right now? How’s the entrepreneurial journey been going? But also, you’re in the middle of it. How’s it going right now?

Junita Flowers: It’s really hard. It’s something like, Oh my God is crazy, crazy. But the payoff is knowing that one for me Junita’s Jar is tied to purpose. And when there’s purpose, it’s not about me. It’s about something greater than I am. So even on the days when it feels hard, I know that I’m doing what I was created when I was promised Earth to do so before we launch into retail. Our presence really is in food service. So we serve hotels and college campuses. We do corporate gifting. So everything we did was in just kind of food service side. So we didn’t have as much interaction with the end consumer. So how you market your business, all of that looks different. And then when we launched and Target nationally, it just changed how we grow our business. And actually during that process we were five weeks before our launch date in our co-manufacturer, the company that produced our product, dropped us with no notice. They were bringing our last order. We were five months out and they had only fulfilled half of the order. And they’re like, Well, just tell target. They’ll understand. And trust me, I was beyond angry, but I’d already been in a place where it felt like all hope was gone. So I knew there was a formula. I knew there was a path to that. So I didn’t lose hope in those moments. I got to work. I knew I didn’t have time to be sad. So I, you know, we called the temp agency. We had already had production equipment because we were making our cookies first ourselves. And I already had access to a kitchen cause that’s where our facility we were licensed initially. And so I contacted a temp agency, we got staff in, and for five weeks I worked seven days a week. For five weeks I probably slept, I don’t know, maybe 3 hours a week maybe. I mean, literally, I got very little sleep, but we got that order done. We had everything fulfilled 12 hours before the semi came to pick up our pallets of product. So it’s been a crazy journey. I wouldn’t trade it because I’ve grown as an entrepreneur, I’ve grown as a person. So much of my faith walk has been developed in my process of growing a cookie company, and it goes back to when I felt so disconnected from church and faith when I was going through divorce and all the things. And so who would have thought that even my faith journey would have been resuscitated through the process of building a cookie company? There’s just so much. But that’s how we know God is bigger than all of us and bigger than the box that we put him in. And he can do anything. When he has access to our heart, he can do anything in our lives.

William Norvell: Amen so I’m two years into building my first business right now, and stories like that feel like I hear them on podcast sometimes. And I used to think like, No, that’s just like the three standard deviation story. How does that happen to everything and everybody? It’s always these crazy like, Yeah, biggest opportunity ever and someone quits or you know, you’re co-main event and you’re like, No, they couldn’t have just called you out of the blue. You must just miss. That’s like, No, no, no, it actually happens. People just randomly call you and change the entire course of your business in 4 seconds, and there’s absolutely nothing you can do about it.

Junita Flowers: And you feel so vulnerable. But that’s where redemption comes in. Because again, if I go back to the brokenness and thought I lost everything when I was going through my divorce, God used everything to make us who he wants us to be. So he gave me a model. He showed me how he during the time when I had time, because, you know, I didn’t have a business. I had time. So he allowed me to go through that process. So I already had kind of a roadmap that ok Junita, we know that this road is not always straight and easy, so I didn’t panic as much. I mean, I was angry. I had. Some words for him, but I couldn’t give them to him because I focus on this order. And then by the time the order was done, you know, some of the anger subsided. But yeah, I think that’s where we really learn resiliency in ways that we never have. And I think that’s where the strength as who we are as entrepreneurs, because I think for entrepreneurs we get the 75 no’s. I got those. When everybody sees the two yeses and everybody celebrates the two yeses, but it’s those 75 nos that reminds us, you know what? We actually kind of know what we’re doing because a lot of times we don’t think we know what we’re doing because we’re getting nos or it’s not going as planned. But those are the times I’m realized, okay, I was created for this. I was cut out for this and I know what I’m doing. And I can make this happen. I can make it work. And so then you get back up and you get back to work.

William Norvell: Amen amen, That’s awesome. So I want to talk about the transition you’ve probably had to made in the business, which I think at some point every founder has to make, right? Which is you go from probably doing everything to start bringing other people along and letting them and trusting them to do things. And I could be wrong about this, but just some part of like I mean, there’s parts of my business I didn’t do, right? I couldn’t do certain things. I don’t know how to do certain things. I had to bring on some people early for you, but I do it every like you bake the cookies, you sent the orders, you did everything. How did the transition from let’s just think specifically from you actually physically baking the cookies to running a business. Go for you. And where are you in that process?

Junita Flowers: So and if I go back even just a little bit like so when I started, I was hand scooping cookies, like literally hand because this is before I even got equipment, I was hand scooping and it was at a point where I dreaded getting orders because it was just I’m like, there’s no way I can scoop 3000 cookies. But there’s just and so, you know, when you’re in business and you don’t want orders, you’ve got to change something. So then that was the first time that I bought my first piece of equipment and it was a tabletop hand crate cookie depositor, but I was no longer hand scooping. And so it’s kind of been like one of those things where every time an opportunity came in. So then we actually had an opportunity with one of our large school districts in the Twin Cities, and they wanted us to provide cookies for this initiative they had. It was something they did on the first Thursday of every month where they were doing like homegrown kind of from scratch cooking. And so I knew that I had to shift because now the volume was dramatically going to changes. So then we bought automated equipment and I had one other staff person, but I just could no longer physically do it. And so I wish it were something where I was like, you know what, strategically, this is when you bring in, you know, this person, it was literally out of, I just can no longer do it. But then as we were growing and we had our automated equipment, then I knew I had to build sort of the support structure. So then I knew I needed to have an attorney on retainer. I knew I needed to start working with an accountant. I knew I had to start building relations. So even though they weren’t my staff, I knew that I had to at least have them on retainer to be able to have those pieces in place to have my business grow from, you know, this thing that I was doing on an Excel spreadsheet to actually an operational plan profit and loss statement so that we could actually fund the business. We can measure our success. We know our profit margin. We actually we’re running a business that can make a profit and no longer just sort of kind of piecemeal yet because, you know, we knew that we’re kind of going to do it because the volumes are small, the risk was low. And so it kind of was just a process of first initially of me physically not being able to do it myself and then knowing that I wanted to grow the business kind of from where I was today to like three years ahead and start to get the operational pieces together to set us up to be successful.

William Norvell: Awesome, awesome. Last question here before we head to our lightning round of the podcast would be, you know something we spent a lot of our ministry on which we love to do is sort of, you know, we like to say that entrepreneurship doesn’t have to be a lonely journey, but often, unfortunately it is. I’m curious for you, what’s something that has worked in your life to sort of put yourself in community with other people, or have you done that? And if so, how? And how do you counteract that sometimes lonely journey that entrepreneurs can face?

Junita Flowers: During 2020, I had the amazing opportunity to be a part of an accelerator through PepsiCo. And so as a part of that initiative, they put us in these cohorts. And so now, three years later, every Friday, I meet with these five women who own businesses with our mastermind group. We meet every Friday that it just feels good. So it’s community all over again. But we’re able to talk about and we’re all at different stages of our businesses, but we’re able to support each other, celebrate wins, you know, troubleshoot things together, and it takes away some of the loneliness that happens in entrepreneurship creates community and community that wants you to do nothing else but to win. So that’s been an amazing experience of how I’ve been able to build this team of support, and it allows me to thrive and manage all the things that we’re managing today.

William Norvell: All right. All right. So now this is our fun portion event where you may get some random questions.

Henry Kaestner: It has been fun up until nowWe’ve been talking to someone who makes cookies.

William Norvell: That well, I’m sorry. It’s a fun portion of the event. Sorry. Not the fun part. Yeah.

Henry Kaestner: Okay. Thank you.

Rusty Rueff: Did you hear what I heard? Williams was channeling Matthew McConaughey. Did you hear that? All right, all right, All right. I heard it, I guess.

Junita Flowers: Oh, yes.

William Norvell: I can turn it on a little bit.

Rusty Rueff: I heard it. I heard it. All right.

Junita Flowers: All right, all right.

William Norvell: I can go there. Alright Henry you take us away to the fun portion, then a fun portion.

Henry Kaestner: A fun and equally fun part. Okay, we’re going to the lightning round. Here are the rules. Rules are we get an opportunity to have some quick answers to some quick questions, and then we’re going to bridge into the most important of the questions at the end. William is going to bring us back in and bring us close. Rusty, and I are going to throw a couple of things at you along the way, but okay, I’m a star off right off the top with something that’s on my mind. Cookies better with ice cream. Roll on.

Junita Flowers: Better with.

Henry Kaestner: Better with. Okay, I’m with you on that too. Okay. So I knew that we were like minded souls. Okay. What’s something that you enjoy about entrepreneurship that you didn’t think you’d like?

Junita Flowers: It’s so much hard work, but the payoff is really knowing that I did that from scratch. So when you get a win, it feels like nothing that I’ve ever experienced before. So it’s hard. But the wins feel so much better.

Henry Kaestner: Okay. Do you see as you proceed and you’re scaling the business, you see that that has opportunities to give you. You’re talking to people that are giving you the raw materials, you’re talking to distribution people, you’re talking to people at Target. Do you ever have an opportunity do people ever ask you what makes you tick? Do you see that as an opportunity to minister to them?

Junita Flowers: Absolutely. You know, our tagline is share cookies, spark conversation, spread hope. So if anything, hope is on our packaging. Hope is infused in everything that we do. So that’s just an opportunity for people to ask questions and allows me to speak about how I got to where I am today.

Henry Kaestner: Outstanding Rusty.

Rusty Rueff: Okay. What’s your go to Cookie when you say this is the one I want? What is it? Yeah. You got to choose among your children here.

Junita Flowers: I know. Depending on the day, I’d say oatmeal, peanut butter, chocolate chip.

Henry Kaestner: Oatmeal, peanut butter, chocolate chip, vanilla ice cream.

Junita Flowers: Oh, my gosh. You cookies with a little bit of ice cream in the middle. And then little cookies, too.

Henry Kaestner: Or a lot of ice cream as the case calls.

Junita Flowers: oh my gosh I am hungry

Rusty Rueff: Okay. Alright, me too, this is killing me here. Okay, So how do I know when that cookie is perfect? Right. You know, the recipe says cook it for 350, you know, 15 minutes or something like that. Or when it’s crispy on top, you know, you kind of look at it. I mean, is there a better way to know when it’s perfect?

Junita Flowers: Our cookies are bite sized with a butter crisp crunch. That’s how you know, it’s perfect. I think the other is if you bake a big cookie, those should always be soft with a little crisp around the edges. But for us, our little bite sized cookies, the perfect, buttery, crisp crunch that’s getting better.

Henry Kaestner: Crisp. And I like that. That’s good. Who says portion control.

Rusty Rueff: That’s all. That’s good. That’s good.

Junita Flowers: Unless you eat the whole bag.

William Norvell: But let’s just eat a lot of more cookies.

Rusty Rueff: You can easily do that. Okay, one more for me. So what would you tell somebody who’s listening and saying, well, you know, I’ve got a hobby. I should make it a business? What would you say to them?

Junita Flowers: Just start. Clarity only comes when you’re in motion. So if you’re waiting to get clarity when you’re standing still, you’ll just have a bunch of ideas thrown around in your head. But the second you take action, clarity will start to come and you’ll start to know, okay, maybe I should do this.

William Norvell: You know, one question here. Maybe on the more serious side would be, hey, we have a lot of listeners, our podcasts, somebody may be in this place, but if someone has lost hope, what’s something you would say to them as an encouragement?

Junita Flowers: It’s important to feel what you’re feeling. Acknowledge what you’re feeling. And then as we talked about being in community, because that’s going to help you kind of figure out what to do, where to go when you can’t figure it out for yourself. But if I had to lean on a scripture that I was able to grasp once my heart was open was Jeremiah 29:11. There’s a plan to this. It’s not random, It’s not willy nilly. There really is a plan for how everything works. But more importantly for me, and God speaks to me personally that he know he has a plan for me, a plan to prosper me and not to harm me, a plan to give me a hope and a future. And if you can hold on to that, even when you can’t see your way out or see what’s next. Just trust that he does have a plan, and at some point it’s going to make sense.

William Norvell: Amen amen and where other than we talked about Target, I’ve looked at your websites. I know you can buy direct to consumer and there are other places people can find out about cookies and or you even want to share with our audience.

Junita Flowers: Yep. So our website is the best place we do sell like and a lot of food service organizations. But it’s like, you know, through like there’s some people get them through their corporate gifting programs, but the best way to find out is through our social media Instagram that’s used when we’re sharing a partner that’s featuring us for the month or on our website. Junita’s Jar.com

William Norvell: Awesome. And then lastly, you just said this, but we love to end our show with God’s Word and we love to always bring it back there. And so we love to invite our guests to share somewhere that God may have them in Scripture. Today could be something you meditated on your whole life, could be something you read this morning that stuck with you. But we’d like to invite you to share our audience with where God has you today.

Junita Flowers: You know, it really does go back to I mean, Jeremiah 29:11 continues to be a game changer as I’m still figuring things out because it really is it can feel so hodgepodge and like it doesn’t make sense or it’s not working or it’s not coming together like I thought or, God, this feels harder. Like if you can do anything in everything, why can’t you take away this hardship? But he has a plan for me, and I have to cling to that because that one, that’s what took my relationship with him from the relationship that my mom had. And I had with him through her. And it made it personal for me because he has a plan for me, for me personally, and I can go to him directly to get clarity, to get direction, to get comfort, to get love. I mean, I can get affirmation. Everything that I need is in that plan that God has for me. And he wants me to prosper. He wants to do good and not to harm me. And I have to feed on that every single day because there was a point in my life when I didn’t believe that was true.

William Norvell: Thank you so much for joining us. It’s been so much fun. I always personally love hearing about consumer brands businesses, too, because there’s always a there’s almost always a very personal start to those stories and of why someone went out on that path. So grateful for you, sharing yours with us today and grateful for your story, continuing to go and change and be on that journey.

Henry Kaestner: Indeed. And a big lesson I’m taking away from this is just a hustle. I mean, just from just talking it up, talking the business up, but then also be intentional about understanding that God had a story for her to share and then auditioning and working at being able to share her message with a broader audience, believing that she indeed could deliver hope, but that it wouldn’t just automatically come to her if she just sat back and waited for the TED guys to call her. And so believing in herself and her story and and her God and going out and advocating for just great encouragement.

Junita Flowers: And knowing that the power of us sharing our story, it’s our witness to someone else, can be the game changer that gets them to think about that. Maybe there’s something more for their life. Like that’s beyond powerful for me, because there’s people in this world that will only hear something from that person that’s struggling. And until they decide to take action, someone else is waiting. And that’s how powerful like it just yeah, that’s what gets me up. That’s what gets me going. That’s what keeps me going.

Rusty Rueff: You’re a woman in motion. Let me tell you. You’re you’re contagious, you know, just your enthusiasm. And I love that quote you that said clarity only comes with motion. So, you know, I can’t wait to see where God moves next in your life and with your business. And yeah, Junita’s jars. I’m not going to forget this. This is great.

Junita Flowers: Thank you. Thank you. I really appreciate it. It’s been great to connect with each of you today.

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4 Tips to Sharing Your Faith With Remote Teams

— by Austin Kapur

“The greatest way to witness is through the life you live. Let the radiance of your Christian life be such that it will make [others] ask questions about your [faith].” – Billy Graham

 

The last few years have been the most planned and unplanned of my life. In January 2020, my husband and I moved out of San Francisco to gain additional space for our first child due in April (planned). In March, when the world shut down, we were asked to stay home and work remotely (unplanned). When our baby girl arrived several weeks later, we praised God for the extra square footage (a planned / unplanned miracle).

But, after nearly two years of working from home, I needed to return to the office. With the seismic shift in how and where we work today, i.e. dining room tables-turned-makeshift desks and Zoom calls now the norm, my current employer surprised me by this request. My focus and productivity was off-the-charts. But, if I was honest, my collegial relationships needed massive TLC.

In a constant state of working from a computer screen, my company colleagues had forgotten how to interact with each other. On a Monday morning and throughout the week, instead of asking how the other person was or about their weekend activities, we jumped straight to business. Conversations became transactional and questionable. I’d ask myself, “Do we even care about each other’s lives? Where’s Jesus in all of this?”

The Challenge Remote Work Poses to Sharing Faith and Loving Others

As Christian entrepreneurs, we are called to be a witness of Christ to others. This can pose a unique challenge when we’re more often replacing in-person interaction with virtual calls and instant messages. But, with intentionality, any challenge (and work environment) is our battlefield.

As 2022’s return to office date loomed, I began implementing easy steps to be more thoughtful of my colleagues’ wellbeing and represent Jesus virtually. Although my behavior shifted, the 20,000-person organization required major work, and it was not changing overnight. That’s when God convicted me to start planning again. In early 2022, I left my employer to run my own virtual business, stating my intentions loudly to the world: to bear the light of hope in and outside my business.

At Plum & Parcel, we’re no strangers to remote work; our team members are spread across the West Coast. We work great virtually when we stick by our values, including goodness and grace. I believe my faith is my greatest asset as an entrepreneur, communicator and leader; I’m confident God created me perfectly for this moment of remote work history, so I can share my faith (and tips) with the world.

 For those who also lead businesses online, here are my top 4 tips for sharing your faith with remote teams. Add your own advice and experiences to the comments, below.


Inspired by Austin’s tips for sharing your faith with remote teams? Learn more about the unique role entrepreneurs play in ministry by watching “Entrepreneurs are Ministers,” a teaching moment by the encouraging Nicky Gumbel.


 Commit to building relationships

Building relationships takes time – even more so when you can’t always engage with your circle (and meet new people) in-person. One solution: prioritize scheduling casual catch-ups or lunches to connect with new acquaintances and coworkers in-person if you can, or remotely if needed. Starting with small talk before any meeting begins is the best way to engage in a meaningful way, which can open the door to deeper conversations about Jesus.

 

Be proactive about showing appreciation virtually

If you actively keep a blog, are active on social media or have a company-wide internal social tool, when was the last time you thought about using these channels to shout out your employees’ awesome work or kind gestures broadly? Have you ever thought about connecting with new or existing customers, investors or employees by sharing your own personal testimony or an encouraging moment with God on these channels? Communicating your appreciation for God and those around you virtually can make a strong statement of your faith and values to the world.

 

Commit to your own spiritual journey

Chances are you’ve heard the phrase ‘you can’t pour from an empty cup’ – and this couldn’t be more true when it comes to our all-important work, as Christians, to spread His light and truth to the world. We must commit to strengthening our own spiritual journey and growing in our faith, just as we inspire and connect with others.

If you are working remotely, consider using the time you would have spent commuting to find a new way to connect with God instead. Explore a chapter of the bible you’ve neglected, start a dialogue online, join a morning bible study, or glean spiritual guidance from a podcast on your morning walk.

Spending time thinking about how you can strengthen your own relationship with God will not only help you fill up your own cup, but it will also help you witness more effectively to others.

 

See your workplace as your mission field

It’s just too easy to find excuses these days: “I’m busy,” “I can’t today,” “I’ll tackle that tomorrow,” are all phrases that seem to find their way into our vocabulary more often than we’d like to admit. Regardless of your action (or in-action) in the past, commit to using your business to witness for Christ.

God willingly and generously provided us the gifts to start and lead these businesses. A simple way to express our gratitude towards Him is by embracing our marketplaces as our place of ministry, and working excellently, generously and kindly for the glory of God. It’s never too late for the people around us to hear the word of God. Make that your most important business goal this next quarter!

“[As Christians], our responsibility is to get God’s word to their ears. Only God can get the word from their ears to their hearts.” – Albert Mohler

 

About Austin Kapur

With 10+ years of in-house and agency internal and external marketing communications experience in the technology, fundraising, and e-commerce space, Austin’s heart has always been led to serve God and His Kingdom through entrepreneurship.

After working at several e-commerce startups in the social impact space early in her career, she started and grew Plum & Parcel in 2014, making a small difference with a range of brands, before heading to the corporate world.

Five years later and new skills and experiences in hand from global organizations Visa and YouCaring (acquired by GoFundMe), Austin decided to pick up where she left off.

Austin has a dual degree in public relations and advertising, along with a leadership and organization studies minor from Chapman University in Orange County, California. In her free time, she enjoys organizing and attending family functions up and down the West Coast with her husband and two children.

Get in touch with Austin at: plumandparcel.com

LinkedIn: @austinkapur, @plumandparcel

Instagram: @plumandparcel


Sharing your faith is a rich topic that can look different depending on the individuals and context in question. At Faith Driven Entrepreneur, we see ourselves as curators of a wider conversation. If you’re interested in more thoughts on sharing your faith with coworkers, vendors, customers, and partners, check out these additional resources.

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Episode 248 – WIRED’s Founding Editor: Wisdom He Wish He Knew With Kevin Kelly

Artificial Intelligence? The shadow of a leader? Jerusalem conversion experiences? WIRED Magazine’s Kevin Kelly brings all that and more to this insightful conversation. 

Kevin is the founding editor for the publication and has authored a number of books including his most recent volume: Excellent Advice for Living: Wisdom I Wish I’d Known Earlier. In this episode, he unpacks some of that wisdom and joins Henry as they work through complex questions about the relationship between AI and the Imago Dei. 
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All opinions expressed on this podcast, including the team and guests, are solely their opinions. Host and guests may maintain positions in the companies and securities discussed. This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be relied upon as specific advice for any individual or organization.


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Rusty Rueff: Hey there and welcome back to the Faith Driven Entrepreneur podcast. When WIRED magazine first came on the scene way back in 1993, it quickly became the go to source for questions about tech and questions about culture. At the helm of the publication was the founding executive editor and today’s guests and a friend of mine, Kevin Kelly. Kevin has been an important voice for people wanting to understand the effects of technology for nearly 50 years now. In addition to his role with WIRED, Kevin is a prolific writer with a number of articles and books, including his most recent volume Excellent Advice for Living, Wisdom I Wish I’d Known Earlier. His work has been featured in the New York Times, The Economist, Time Magazine, and many others. He was also featured in Tim Ferriss, his book, Tools of Titans. He joins the show today to share insights from his book, then talk about the ever changing technology landscape and give us hope for the future, even when it seems dim. He also tells us about his powerful conversion experience. Let’s listen in.

Henry Kaestner: Welcome back to the Faith Driven Entrepreneur. We’re here with a really special guest. If you’ve tuned in before. You’ve probably heard me say that before. And yet each time I say it, it can also be true. And this one is clearly no exception. We have Kevin Kelly, who among many, many other things, is the founder of WIRED magazine, which has been an inspiration and encouragement to so many of us that are in technology. And when I found out through his relationship with Rusty that he was a Christian and maybe Rusty told me this two or three years ago, maybe even longer ago than that, I’m like, Oh my goodness, we’ve got to get Kevin on the program while today it’s happening. We have Kevin with us. Kevin, thank you very much for joining.

Kevin Kelly: Well, it’s my pleasure and privilege and so delighted you invited me. I’m really looking forward to this. By the way, Wired was founded 30 years ago, basically last month. So it’s been

Henry Kaestner: Happy birthday.

Kevin Kelly: Right? Yes. A lot has changed over 30 years.

Henry Kaestner: Well, you and I were talking right before we went live and I told you that it’s conversations that you were having and people like George Gilder were having back then talking about how important bandwidth was that gave rise to David Morgan, who had read a George Gilder article. Read about the same time you guys are starting to talk about it, read an article, registered the domain name bandwidth, of which then bandwidth, of course, came out and then Republic Wireless and then relay, but then sovereigns and then Faith Driven Entrepreneur. So it is maybe also a kind of a 30th anniversary for the Faith Driven Entrepreneur movement too maybe.

Kevin Kelly: That’s exactly right. One of my pieces of advice is that we tend to overestimate what we can do in the short term and underestimate what we can do in the long term. So if you give yourself 30 years to get something done, you can do accomplish an incredible amount. And achieve, tremendous even in a decade versus you know, thinking about the next six months.

Henry Kaestner: Yeah. May God find us faithful to that and that’s really encouraging. Okay. So you guys would probably be familiar with the Dos X-Man, who is labeled as the most interesting man. And I would submit you that that’s not the case, that it is Kevin Kelly or at least very least the Christian version of the most interesting man alive is Kevin Kelly. Because of his interest in technology and creation care, his faith. And he has a new book in which he distills some of this was and we’re going to talk about that here in a little bit. But before we go much further in that, and I want to kind of go through this excellent advice for living, which I had been consuming and continue to consume. And I hope that our audience will as well. I want to hear a bit about your journey, a little bit of biographical, and you can start as early as you want. I most certainly, though, one hit the conversion story from Jerusalem, so you start where you want, but make sure you hit on Jerusalem, please.

Kevin Kelly: Yeah. So briefly, I was kind of like a science and art nerd in high school. I took all the science courses I could possibly cram into doubling up on math and science. And at the same time, I was interested in art. My parents wanted me to decide whether I wanted to go to art school or, you know, MIT. And if there had been a gap year back in those days or internship, I would have done that. But I wound up hating my first year of college because it was grade 13. I just needed to get out of a classroom and do something. And so I dropped out of college and went to Asia because my best friend from high school was studying Chinese to be a missionary in Taiwan. And I went to visit him and I had my head blown. It was like, Oh my gosh, this is like. There’s a different world here. This is like Taiwan in 1972 was just incredibly alien, and it was next to Japan, in the Philippines. And then I wound up kind of visiting these, hopping to photograph. That was my excuse. And I just constantly was learning. And so I did this for almost ten years and awarded myself an honorary degree in Asian Studies at the end, because I felt that I had earned I learned so much. But part of what I was doing was, you know, I was photographing the ceremonies and the things that were disappearing very fast as they modernized. And I would often go to there were a lot of religious ceremonies, religious costuming, festivals, traditions, because they were in some ways the most colorful. So I had an interest in the religions of that time, and I would read as much as I could about them and ask questions and be around the people. And for people who I mean, no matter what kind of religion they were, they were incredibly kind and generous to a fault and welcoming and just. Christlike. And I was also reading the New Testament in the Bible while I was waiting on the bus to leave, because that’s mostly what I did was wait on busses to leave, the busses didn’t go anywhere until they were full. And that was how I got around. So I spent a lot of my adult life waiting for the bus to get full so I could leave and I would spend that time reading. And so I happened to arrive in Jerusalem on Easter to photograph it as part of my explorations of Asia. And I was there. I got locked out of my hostel in Jerusalem on the Saturday night before Easter, and I wound up roaming around and having to sleep in the Church of the Holy Sepulcher because it was the only that was open the hostels had a curfew, which I didn’t know and I was actually locked out. And then I kind of just found myself wandering over to the ceremonies Easter morning for the Sunrise service. And I, much to my astonishment, I had a conversion experience that I was not expecting. I was not looking for, I was not ready for.

Henry Kaestner: How did that happen?

Kevin Kelly: I don’t know how it happened. It just happened.

Henry Kaestner: Like all of a sudden you blew like, oh my goodness, all this stuff.

Kevin Kelly: You know, there were singing. It’s like, Oh, this seems like the real thing. And then it was kind of like, Well, what does that mean? There was no, like, this thing, the veil drop or anything like that. It was like, okay. So I went back in kind of a daze and I was like laying down. I remember the hostel was opened by then. I was lying down in the hostel and it’s like and you know, you heard about Jerusalem syndrome.

Henry Kaestner: No.

Kevin Kelly: Which is Jerusalem attracts all kinds of people, weird people who either believe that they’re the Messiah or they’re completely they, you know, they’re talking to the Messiah. I mean, just like it really attracts people who, you know, that these very strong and there were people in the hostel like that and I was like, Oh my gosh, I’m now one of them. You know, I’m now the crazy guy who’s talking to them. And so I was lying there trying to think about what it meant, what did you do? And I had a very distinct assignment. That’s the best I can give. It was to go and live as if I had only six months to live. And I said that that’s like crazy. I’m in perfect health. I’m not going to, but I need to complete that assignment. So that’s what I did. I left and I went back and I decided what would I do? And the surprise to me was I wasn’t going to climb the Himalayas with all the things I’ve been doing that already. So like, my answer to what I would do is I would go back and see my brothers and sisters and see my parents. And there’s like, I was shocked, but that was what my answer was. But anyway, that’s what it did. And part of it was I didn’t have a car, you know, very much. So I decided to ride my bicycle from San Francisco to New York and visit my brothers and sisters along the way.

Henry Kaestner: Ride on your bicycle.

Kevin Kelly: Yes. Oh, my bicycle. So I set off from San Francisco on a bicycle, and it was three months to visit. My brother was in Idaho and another brother in Arkansas and my sister up in New England. So I just rode around. I could buy food along the way. It was just camping and I was riding to my death. It was like I had six months. That was the countdown I was going along. And so the thing is, the point of the story is that at the end of that night, I didn’t tell anybody because I was like, totally crazy. But I was at my parents house. I rode back right at my parents house in New Jersey, and I was staying. It was like I was totally 100% prepared. I did everything ready for the evening of the last day that it had, and I kind of like it was completely all that I could do to prepare myself. I’d given everything away and I own nothing, you know, whatever. And then the next morning I was reborn. I suddenly had my life before me. I literally had a re born because I had been not thinking about the future because I had only six months to live, I denied everything. It was like I didn’t take my camera because what’s the point? And so I had the reborn experience that didn’t have in Jerusalem.

Henry Kaestner: That must have been incredibly liberating and amazing. So number one, you’re alive and now you get your whole life in front of you.

Kevin Kelly: So now suddenly I can think about the future. And that was sort of one of the reasons why I believe and theme of the future that we need, that we have to have, that that’s an important part of our own psyches because it was so devastating to not have a future. For me, that was my experience. And so I became interested in sort of inhabiting and imagining futures because I could see the value in having that hope and having a picture of where we went ahead, too.

Henry Kaestner: Okay, because you had become a futurist, you may not like that designation, but humor me with it. I mean, you’ve been one that thinks about the future absolutely more than the average person. And. So I want to talk about you starting WIRED magazine. But I am interested, there are 15 years between that conversion experience and you founding WIRED magazine. What does it look like for a young person who now has 15 years in front of him and his big future? Was it there during that time that your love of technology and what’s going on was birthed there? What happened next?

Kevin Kelly: Well, I kind of was a slightly hippie ish growing up, and I my bias, my hero in high school was Henry David Thoreau. Walden, you know, went to the woods, built his own house and lived by himself and so had a hands, arms, lives with technology. As I said, I owned a bicycle and a camera, but I was not at all interested in the big stuff, you know, big computers. My dad had these computers. I didn’t was no interest in that. I had no interest in industry. You know, grew up in New Jersey with a chemical factory that is like I was sort of repulsed by it in some sense. And then living in Asia, in the places where I was, I was living in places where there was almost no technology at all. I had the experience of like in northern Afghanistan in the seventies, which was completely medieval. It was literally a medieval town with medieval social structures, medieval no electricity, I mean, a whole town, entire towns with no electricity. They have little guys come around with light, the lanterns, the kerosene lanterns at night for the street lamps. It was remarkable. So I had that experience of living without the technology. I was very comfortable with that. But what happened was I started writing about travel because that was the one thing I started to know, and I wanted to share my love of travel for the whole Earth. KELLOGG which was the thing that I loved it was was the one publication that I worldly hoped to work at someday. And because it was kind of a do it yourself thing, kind of merge my interest in science and art. And I started writing travel stuff because it was the one thing I knew more about than anybody else. And I had the opportunity to use a computer in the lab that I worked at to do a mail order catalog to send the stuff I typed to a printer. And so there was a modem. There was a modem on the computer, an apple two E. This is like in early eighties. There was a modem on the computer and something happened. I discovered that there was this emerging they call the bulletin board world, the online world. And for the first time I felt that there was technology that felt human scale. It was communication, it was people, but people I felt like empowered, but I felt that there was new power there. And I decided I wanted to write about that as if it was a new country erupting. That was my thesis. So I got invited. I got myself invited on to explore some of these emerging things in early eighties online, and I was reporting on them as if there was a new country. And I wrote about it called a Network Nation. And that was the whole thing of marrying the computer to the telephone and having that communication that began for the first time to see that there was something about technology that could really benefit me and other people. And it wasn’t that kind of cold, hard thing is somewhat like an Amish barn raising. And as I got into that more and more and as kind of learn more about how to do it and what it was and living online, I began to become a little bit more interested in where it was taking us and what was happening and with some other technologies that were related. And so it made me kind of rethink the role of technology in our lives in the cosmic scale thing, like what is this thing cosmically? So that was the beginning. It came from the experience of living online in the eighties and seeing the way in which you kind of liberated many, many things and saying, Well, there’s there’s something really good here that’s not the kind of industrial scale technology that was overpowering. It’s actually quite humane. And so that was the beginning of where I began to think more about the future in a serious way.

Henry Kaestner: That’s very interesting. So I’ve never thought about technology exactly that way. I think that most of us haven’t. I mean, I think of it as a new nation with its own language, with its own mores, with its own social structures. And if you think about it that way, you almost think of it like kind of this like egalitarianism, maybe skewing a little bit intellectual, but nonetheless some sort of democratic egalitarian type of system, almost kind of like a almost like a nirvana. I mean, if you think about it that way, if you think of it as a nation, you do think about it differently. And then I want to talk about WIRED magazine and founding, but maybe I’ll just go ahead and I’ll skip ahead to that and we’ll come back to WIRED magazine. If you’re right, if we jump around a little bit. So this nation that you started reporting on, the emergence of this new nation that emerged in the early eighties is now a nation that’s been around for 40 or 50 years. And it’s it’s held some promise to its citizens, and it’s created a lot of opportunities for its citizens. And it also is going through some. Maybe growing pains. Just comment. I just keep on that riff about the nation of technology.

Kevin Kelly: Well, I have a friend who’s a very vocal writer, John Perry Barlow, who is unusual among the citizens of this new nation. He was an online guy, but he was a Republican Deadhead from Wyoming. You know, it’s like your head explodes, right? Yeah. But he actually wrote this manifesto where he said this nation should be independent, which I thought was totally bonkers. And I ran it in WIRED. And it’s very notorious because basically, you know, he was saying they wanted to be separate. He wanted it to be its own thing and have independence called the Declaration of Independence for this new online nation word. And that, to me, never made sense. I’m not a utopian. I felt that what was happening was we were going to take this online world and marry embedded into the real world. And that was the two worlds is cyber world. This online nation that we were embedded into the actual physical world, and that we would have this marriage of these two, the both intangible and the tangible. And I think that’s, to me, a much more likely direction and destination rather than a separate nation that has an independence and it’s separate from the world.

Henry Kaestner: So there’s more of an AR versus a VR type of world.

Kevin Kelly: Right. So the AR world, they are a vision is that you have this overlay. You can see the intangible digital world on top of or inside of the actual world. And that to me is feels more like where we’re going rather than that we’re going to have these separate entities where you’re, you know, like kind of like the metaverse from the crash. And so in 30 years, so my take on the general direction is that we are starting to have this integration rather than having a separate sphere.

Henry Kaestner: Yeah. Okay. So I’m interested to get your takes in light of that with two things. One is artificial intelligence and the other one is blockchain. So just riff on both of those. I think about blockchain, you’re talking about kind of like, you know, this Declaration of Independence that I think about blockchain and the promise of crypto kind of fitting in that camp. But then I think about, well, how do I think about artificial intelligence in light of kind of the technology world kind of coming down on our own and the integration. So maybe take which other one is more interesting to you first, please?

Kevin Kelly: Well, I’ll say a few words about crypto because it’s much shorter.

Henry Kaestner: Yeah.

Kevin Kelly: And AI is endless. So the crypto thing, I have family members who are, you know, kind of involved in the world. And I would say to them, look, I’m willing to have the conversation about crypto, but we can’t talk about money, can’t talk about making money or saving money. Those conversations are very short. Because the value of blockchain and crypto so far has really not been identified other than it’s about money. And I find money very boring in that way. So crypto and blockchain I think are incredibly potent and very sweet technologies. The idea of having decentralization, having the public ledger, all these things are really powerful, but they just haven’t found where they are valuable because there is a great cost to them. So the benefit of decentralization is this agile, that it’s very adaptive, that it’s very powerful, the downsides, it’s incredibly inefficient. And that’s true for biology, for evolution, Evolution is incredibly adaptive, but it’s incredibly inefficient. You know, making a million frog eggs to have three live, that’s like crazy inefficient, but it’s very adaptable, it’s very good. And so making decentralized systems is the way to do it is very powerful, but there’s a cost to it. And so far we haven’t found the kind of tasks where it’s going to be worth paying that cost. So what we’re left with is the money making part of it. And the way I say about crypto is it has to be something where there’s value to it. Even if it’s losing money, even the price is crypto going down. So like if you buy a house, even if the market goes down and the house loses value, it’s still valuable to you. Well, right now most of the crypto is like, show me the blockchain where it’s valuable, even if it’s losing money. If it’s an expense and not a place that’s making money, not a profit center. So we haven’t yet reached there. And so I think it’s possible it could, but it hasn’t yet. And so I’ll say, well, come back to me when there’s some value other than money making money.

Henry Kaestner: So before we move on to artificial intelligence, I just want to drill down on one thing and I hesitate a little bit to ask it, because this is going to betray my lack of knowledge in crypto and blockchain. And it really is. I mean, I feel like I’m an investor, so, you know, I can think about investors back in the nineties or like I’m, I can invest in the Internet. That doesn’t make any sense. I feel that way sometimes about blockchain and crypto. And yet one of the other uses for money is to give it one of the things you make it, you spend it, you save it, but you also give it. So I’m wondering about when you think part of this is that I’ve met a guy recently named John Steele in South Africa and it because I’m fascinated by poverty to financial spiritual poverty, just fascinated by poverty. And he says, well, on the financial poverty side, you need to have systems that will be able to allow for digital identity micropayments and connectivity. If you bring that to a country like Central African Republic, then you’ve really freed them up. And my thought is that crypto might afford some measure of of a digital identity. It doesn’t solve for the connectivity part, but maybe the digital identity and the micropayments part of that. But maybe I’m just misunderstanding its use or its potential for emerging markets. Any thoughts?

Kevin Kelly: Right, Right. So again, my goal to talk about the money part. Yep. All right. But the identity, Sure, it’s possible to have a decentralized identity, but it’s expensive to do it that way. And so is it going to be worth it? I don’t know. Most of the identity systems, like in India, which has been a raging success. Oh, my gosh. Because for the first time, I mean, this identitiy thing in India was really hard because of people being born without birth records and all kinds of things and never being able to get into the system. But they now have a, you know, federally mandated centralized identity system. And it’s really unleashed. And it isn’t decentralized at all. It’s very ordinary runs on a database. But then it’s been really powerful. So I don’t know, it’s possible that you could have identity system that was decentralized and was worth that price. I don’t know. I haven’t seen it yet. But let’s go on to A.I., please. So we’re going to be talking about A.I. for the next hundred years. So right now there’s a.

Henry Kaestner: So what happens? What happens at the end of the hundred years? The machines take over 100 years.

Kevin Kelly: Well, I mean, the main thing is this, because it’s so close to us and what it is that we’re doing, that part of what we’re doing is we’re redefining who we are as humans. Okay. I mean, this is very, very clear. The reason the recent A.I. stuff that’s been happening with chat bot and the image generators, it is because guys are really so smart. They’ve actually been that smart for a while. It’s that we thought have an interface to them, which is this text and language interface. We can talk to them and hear them. They can hear us, we can talk back and forth. And that’s the new thing, is that we’ve had these powers, they’ve been there. But now so we have the interface, this conversational interface, so anybody can do this and we’re discovering each day things that they could do that we didn’t know that they could do. Even the adventures didn’t know they could do. But the thing about it is, is that compared to where we’ll be even in 30 years, nothing’s happened. I mean, it’s like we haven’t even started yet. We’ll look back and say, Well, you don’t have a and we don’t have the AI because we’ve only been able to synthesize one aspect of our brain, which is pattern recognition. There’s all these other things that our minds do that we haven’t even begun to replicate. But what’s shocking is not that the AI are so smart, but that things that we thought required a lot of. Intelligence turned out to be dumber than we thought. So, like, chess turned out to be more mechanical. A process than we thought. Playing chess. Driving a car turned out to be more mechanical than we thought. Painting a picture turned out to be more mechanical than we thought. Creativity is more mechanical than we thought. We’ve now programed into these things. They’re creative with a small, lowercase c. They’re not big creative. But that lowercase creativity, something we can do. It’s just like evolution. It’s something we can put into machines. It’s not a supernatural thing. It’s just it’s a mechanical process. And that’s what we do. So all these things that we thought were higher things are much more elementary than we thought. And the next shot we’re going to have is emotion. We often think of that what we need to be conscious and and aware and superintelligent to have an emotional robot. No, no, no. Emotion is like, you know, animals can be emotional emotions, a very primitive thing. It’s actually not hard at all to put into these AI and bots. And we’re going to realize, oh, my gosh, you know, programing, emotional machines is more mechanical than we thought. And so that’s what’s happened, is that we’re kind of redefining, well, you know, maybe we’re more mechanical than we thought or what is it that we do that’s different from that? And we’re going to be asking ourselves that question every year from now on as well. What’s special about us? I mean, why are we here? What are we for? What are we going to be doing? And that’s the conversation I think is going to be going on for many, many decades.

Henry Kaestner: We’ll get a start on that, because you alluded the fact that there’s a small c creative and a big C creative. So we pray every day or often that God’s kingdom would come on Earth as it is in heaven. Do you see the emergence of A.I. in this discussion over the next hundred years as a facilitation of that or a hindrance to it?

Kevin Kelly: This the facilitation of it? Because I think there’s a couple different metaphors we can use. But for me, the most promising framework to think about AI is artificial aliens. So if you can imagine, what if we actually had engaged in contact with other civilizations in the universe, how that might disturb or inform or encourage us in our faith, Right? It’s like going to meet other aliens. And so it’s like, well, do you have a messiah? Do you have a savior? You know, it’s like there’s like there’s so many questions we’re going to have. Where do we fit into? Where is our own story fit into the cosmic story and how universal is it and and what does it mean? And so who knows when or if we’ll ever make contact, but we’re going to actually create artificial versions of that on this planet. We’re going to make beings that will eventually have some.

Henry Kaestner: Before we go on there, because that’s a huge thing. Do you think there’s intelligent life on other planets?

Kevin Kelly: Absolutely. Without a doubt. Without a doubt. I mean, like, you know, you look at the Web once. Okay, so you have a picture here where there’s, you know, trillions and trillions and trillions and trillions of galaxies. Well, these little is not a star of the galaxy. And each of those have a billion stars in them. So, absolutely, it’s this actually is a really good book called Astro Theology. The whole book is about the premise of other civilizations and Christianity. Basically. It’s a theology of other civilizations and the historical arguments, because even back in medieval times, they were talking about, are there other civilizations or are they covered or not? You know, this is a very big thing. So I absolutely believe that the universe is filled with others. And the question is, what about them or what’s their role or how does this play into it? And so we’re again, we have no certainty that we ever have any context, but we’re are have certainty that we’re going to make these artificial beings. We are made in the image of God. God is a creator. We are going to create other beings to have free will and consciousness. Just as God made us. We’re going to replicate this. That’s what it means to be made in the image that we are creator of beings. And so we’re going to be doing that. And the question is what is their role? And so that’s why I’ve been working on this catechism for robots. It’s like, what do we tell them, where they come from, what’s their purpose, what’s their relationship?

Henry Kaestner: So think about creation, mandate, be fruitful and multiply. Take dominion over all things. Do we take dominion over this artificial intelligence? And do we teach them their rightful place in the order? Or are we teaching them to also take dominion over all things? And are they ever in conflict?

Kevin Kelly: You have two good questions. Yeah. You know, I wrote a book called Out of Control. It’s my first book. And there was this idea that when you make these systems and they have their own initial agenda and maybe even wants and purposes and tendencies and if not free will. It’s like children. It’s like, how do you raise children? You kind of want to instill in them knowing that at some point they’re going to be out of your control. So it’s like the genius of having that. It’s very dangerous. There is a danger in power in having things be creative and truly have, you know, some measure of Genesis themselves. So we don’t know. I mean, I think this goes back to this thing of the next hundred years where we are going to be confronting ourselves as we make these other kinds of things. And it’s like, who controls them? Or already we’re having this problem with the chat bot. It’s like, who owns the copyright of the things that are made? Do they have any rights? And it seemed like science fiction even just 20 years ago to be talking about that, but were very, very quickly coming up, like, who is responsible for it? There’s a woman professor at MIT who’s been arguing that we should adopt some of the law from the biblical time when onward about dealing with your animals. Like if an animal does something, are you responsible? You know, there’s a lot, you know, that kids and others talking about that, but that we should adopt some of those laws to the AI. But I think that’s not going to be enough.

Henry Kaestner: When you talk about a creation and giving them free will and then being both potentially aghast at some of the things you come up with, but then also amazed there seems to be something that unites humans in our search for and maybe you’d say this isn’t something that unites all humans. But I think that one of the things that unites us all is this search for wisdom is just it’s knowledge is wisdom. And the beginning of all knowledge, the beginning of a wisdom is the fear of God. So I had the fear of God. You have the fear of God. Question is, there’s this artificial intelligence that we create, that we create with some level of free will and consciousness. Do they also have a fear of God, or are we their gods?

Kevin Kelly: Yeah. So the thing that I always kind of really assist with, as we were talking about them in plural, there are going to be hundreds of different species of AIs. There’s not one monolithic AI. There’s many, many species, many varieties, all engineered to do different things with different personalities, different capabilities. Some of them will be very, very vast, working in large scale, maybe even planetary. Others will be much smaller. They’ll be more like an animal. They’re aliens. They’re going to be like a thousand different species of them. And we’re going to try all different kinds of things. A lot of them will be made without consciousness because consciousness is actually a liability, right? So they’ll be AI advertised as conscious, free, Right? You have to worry about these. They’re not self-aware because self-aware it can be very expensive. It’s a liability. There will be others that they will engineer and some kind of awareness. And partly that is just to explain them. We’re already we’re having this issue of like they do things that we don’t understand. Why are they doing it, how they make the decision? Well, you have another kind of A.I. looks over their shoulder and tries to explain what they’re doing. And that’s sort of the beginning of kind of self-awareness. So we’re going to program in self awareness to some of them because it’s going to be useful. So one thing is that there’s going to be many varieties, some of which might be more complicated and have levels of self-awareness for whatever reason. And we may have different attitudes or different reasons to program in some way versus the other. So the kind of questions you’re asking is great questions, and the answer is we don’t have answers for them and we haven’t thought about them. For most part, people have been very reluctant to take it seriously. It seems to science fictiony to kind of waste good, honest thinking about until recently. And now I think finally people are realizing this is not a philosophical question, like if you have a car, self-driving car, there was the old philosophical trolley problem. You know, should the car veer to the right and kill a lot of people or to the left and kill a few people? And that seemed like a remote philosophical question. But now when you have a self-driving car, you actually have to answer it. You have to give it an answer. You can’t just wave your arms and say, Oh, I don’t know. You have to say it’s either going to prioritize the safety of the passengers or the pedestrians. So we can program in values to these. That’s easy, because this code, the difficulty is we don’t know. Our own ethics are so shallow and inconsistent and vague. We don’t actually know how to make these better than us. We don’t know what that means. We want them to be better than us. We don’t want them to be as racist or sexist, as mean as average person. We want them to be better than us. What does that mean? And so as we try to make these better than us, we have the opportunity to improve ourselves.

Henry Kaestner: I wonder what the role of prayer is in this. I wonder if so your point is that not a lot of people have been talking about this because it’s just been all hypothetical. So presumably there’s not been a lot of people that have been praying about it, but now it’s here. And so a number of us need to be praying that God’s will would be done to protect us and it can as well be done. I wonder if and then we’ll stop this exploring. I want to get to talk about your book here and say I have one last question I want to ask you about that. But real quickly, can we can we program these new beings, especially ones who are conscious to pray?

Kevin Kelly: Good question.

Henry Kaestner: Okay. So next question is your point. Before you can answer all the questions or not answers all these questions. Okay. So I love the illustration that we started this off with, which is this sense of we’ve got this six months bike ride we have this minimalist existence was just us, a bike and a camera, and we were going to this destination. You and I are both on the backside of 50. We talked about this being a 100 year conversation. You and I are likely not going to be around for the full 100 years of. Is there a technological advance that you’re hoping that you are around to see? It’s like you’re you’re not diminished moment or like, okay, I just saw that now God, you can take me home.

Kevin Kelly: Oh, boy. That’s such a great question. You know, I think my views on AI so gradualistic. I think there is such a span. There’s nothing binary about it that I’m not sure that I can see a moment. But there is another technology that I think would be transformative in the world, and that would be nuclear fusion, making an artificial sun on the planet for energy. Yeah. And I think, you know, having that would sort of launch civilization into another league if you actually had economical, smaller versions of this around the world, that would be very transformative. So that would be kind of cool. I don’t know if it’s like like a die now. I don’t know if I feel that, but I think it would be really cool.

Henry Kaestner: Yeah. Okay. So I’m with you on that. I actually have a friend of mine who’s a part of that movement, and his science fiction is real, and he very much feels it’s real that maybe we’ll tackle that on another podcast. I want to get to the book. Okay. I love the simplicity of a title that tells you everything you need to know about the book. Excellent advice for living. I’m like, All right, I’m in, I’m in. I probably am. Try to figure out like, what makes this person give me excellent advice. And so I’m sold on Kevin Kelly being able to provide that. I love the way you put it together. The book reads like emails Fix your Faith. I mean, it reads like proverbs. It reads like the books of Proverbs. Are these themes, forgiveness and gratitude. But then you get to some other things, like experimentation, which is cool and advice about debt and all that. I mean, some standouts for Faith driven entrepreneurs as you’re looking at this. Maybe we’ll start here because we’re all point people. You cannot get smart people to work extremely hard just for money.

Kevin Kelly: Okay.

Henry Kaestner: That’s excellent advice. Number 129. Okay, maybe start there, but just share with us some excellent advice. Really knowing that our audience are primarily a group of faith driven entrepreneurs that are out there. Entrepreneurship can be a lonely journey. It doesn’t need to be. But you’ve been an entrepreneur. You’ve seen other entrepreneurs just preach to us, please.

Kevin Kelly: Yeah, I mean, it’s, I think, related to maybe another piece of advice I have I’m going to maybe not say exactly is it’s in the book, but this idea that if you don’t care about their people, they’re not going to care about your mission. The kind of what we know is that what drives people is more than money. And that’s true for even the greediest person, too, and that people are looking for meaning they’re craving things that matter, they want to be appreciated. And all those other people factors are actually much bigger than we often give credit to. Sometimes they’re subterranean, they’re not visible, sometimes they’re they’re hidden, but they’re there. And leaders, I think, often understand that. And they can work and communicate at the emotional level, which is really important. It’s not all about money, although that is a big thing and is important. But for motivation, you just need more.

Henry Kaestner: Okay, So there are some things that I think are counter maybe different about the book than maybe one would expect, but makes me just think that there’s so much more wisdom in this. You talk a lot about family. You talk about things like dinners without screens. I mean, this guy is a big technologist, right? Dinners without screens and things like that, instilling family rituals. And tell us about how you’ve balance your vocation with your love of family.

Kevin Kelly: It’s funny because going back to the history of Wired. Wired had close to maybe 100 employees, and I was still the only person who had kids out of 100.

Henry Kaestner: Wow.

Kevin Kelly: Yeah, it was very young. Was just mostly kids right out of college and stuff. And so I just I had the privilege of being one of the co-founders, and so I could kind of set my own agenda. And part of that agenda was, you know, how we can be home for meals. And that was just part of the deal, so to speak, was like, Yeah, you get me, but I’m going to come home for meals in the evening. And so that was one way. And I think.

Henry Kaestner: Let me drill on that just a second if you do not mind, Rusty who you and I both know is fond of talking about the shadow of a leader. So when you started off you had almost all childless folks. But you know, WIRED has been around for 30 years and there have been people coming on board. He talks about it’s what we do in our behaviors and the example we set through our actions. It helps to create a corporate culture. Would you say that you’re insisting on being home for family dinners is something then that your employees felt that much more freer to adopt in their own families?

Kevin Kelly: It didn’t happen in the time that we were still there, but we did actually spend a lot of time talking about the company culture and acculturation of people coming in. And one of the early things that Wired did that was very unusual at the time, it’s become kind of standard right now was we designed the offices to look like a home office. It was like, okay, we have the ability to design what we want, what should this look like? And we said, Well, looks like this are your home office. And so that was the thing. It was very dog friendly again at the time, 30 years ago. It’s very innovative. It’s kind of the norm now. And so those are the superficial things. But there was other kind of a cultural thing where we actually really tried to spend some time with new hires and try and say, here’s sort of what we think, here’s what we think is important, here’s how we’re going to try and do things. And the magazine was sold after seven years. We lost control. It’s a very sad thing. We had an IPO that failed, prompted the sale of the company and the founders left at that point. So I don’t know if we had stayed on longer whether those kinds of things would have had the shadow effect that Rusty talks about in the first seven years. There were just ones that I keep getting married in the first seven years now.

Henry Kaestner: Well, I’m going to presume that that would have been the case. I really believe in the shadow of leader and Rusty talks passionately about it. So if you’re listening to this, Yes. Do you understand that having the values you need to see this all throughout this book, all throughout this book about excellent advice for living, you’re going to see a real focus on the family. And I think that’s going to be important for your own family. I also would submit to you, this can be really important for all the children of your employees. Yes super important.

Kevin Kelly: So that there are a couple of kind of entrepreneur advice that are buried in there. I don’t know if you get to it, but maybe if I can jump to it. So please, for me, the one of the most profound encapsulation so that I kind of return to and I wrote these originally so I can repeat them to myself, like there a kind of give me myself a little handle onto this big whole book of wisdom, kind of reduced to a little tweet that I could hold and repeat to myself. And one of them is Don’t aim to be the best, be the only. Okay. And that’s true for corporations and companies as well as individuals.

Henry Kaestner: That’s kind of like a Peter riff on Peter Till Zero, the one. Don’t be a disruptor within the industry. Create a new industry entirely.

Kevin Kelly: Right, exactly. If you’re trying to be best your competition, if you’re the best basketball player, but if you’re the only, it’s like you’re the only. That’s the thing. You’re inimitable, you have your own moat, you know, whatever it is. But that’s a high, high bar to get to, particularly for individuals, because it requires an incredible amount of self-knowledge and self-awareness to understand what it is that you are the only about what it is that you do better than anyone else or whatever it is that you can do that no one else can do. And for most of us, like myself, it takes almost your entire life to kind of work on trying to get there. And by the way, this is something you can’t uncover or discover yourself. You need family, friends, siblings, colleagues, customers, everybody else around you to help you uncover that. And that’s why we are born in the middle of many people. And so that journey of like. Trying to get to The only is another piece of advice for the young people is, if at all possible, try to work on something where nobody has a name for what it is that you’re doing, which takes a while to explain to your mother what it is that you do. It’s this is this idea that that’s where you want to be. You want to be ahead of the language ahead of where there’s competition, basically. And, you know, your title should be like something that nobody else has. And it may take a long time before you can figure out what that is. That’s a good sign.

Henry Kaestner: Means you’re on the right track. So I was going to ask you if there are any hacks to getting there earlier. I’m really glad to hear that you said that it happens in community because otherwise you’ve got blind spots. You’re not going to be able to see it.

Kevin Kelly: Oh, yeah. Yeah. Big time.

Henry Kaestner: Okay, good. Okay. We’re at the part of the program now and it’s going to end, just so you know, at the end is going to ask you what you’re hearing from God through His word, believing that Scripture is alive. It’s informative, and it can help us as entrepreneurs in our journey. But before we get there, I’ve got a bunch of rapid succession. And the key here, the rules are I have to ask the question in less than 15 seconds, you have to answer less than 30. And then then I’ll bring our faith driven entrepreneurs, especially for those who are commuting to work. To work on time. Okay, here we go. You have a deep love and appreciation for Asia. Tell us about that. Is it part of that trip to Taiwan, I presume?

Kevin Kelly: I began there and I spent the next 50 years photographing disappearing traditions in Asia. And I made books about this. And those traditions are going away very fast. I think there’s still value in looking at them and not nostalgic, because at the same time, Asia is actually now the future. More than half the people on this planet live there and they are rapidly kind of making their own version of what the future should be. So go visit and see what they have in mind, because what they think about things is probably more important than what the U.S., which is 1/10 the population thinks.

Henry Kaestner: I am so with you, I was there last week in K.L. and in Jakarta, and I love Asia. Okay. Wired named Marshall McLuhan its patron saint. I don’t think our audience knows much about him. Can you give a quick overview of his work and why it’s so important to Wired’s mission?

Kevin Kelly: Well, Louis Rossetto, the main co-founder of Wired, was enamored of McLuhan and his understanding of how media in general worked. And he wanted to honor McLuhan, whom I had never really read very much. And I think that’s part of the point is you don’t read McLuhan, you hear about him is his idea that this kind of weird, oral written blend Lewis wanted him to be on the message. So I said we should make sure patron saint, which was an honor to him, and also kind of a joke because he was very Catholic in his background. And so the idea was that McLuhan was suggesting that, you know, the medium itself has actually more influence on people than the messages that the medium conveyed. That was his basic thing, is that the medium if you have social media, you’re going to be affected by that. If you’re using it, no matter what is said on it, just the shape and the power of the medium will influence us. And I think that’s the primary McLuhan insight. And so that if you go online, no matter what you say on it or how it’s used, it’s going to shape you because of the nature of that online media. And I think that’s true and it’s a profound insight.

Henry Kaestner: Okay. So it’s a good insight. It’s challenging, encouraging for us at the FDE podcast. What’s a story that you wish you could have written or published in Wired that never happened before your departure?

Kevin Kelly: Yeah, there was a very simple one. It wasn’t even really a writing, but it was I wanted to photograph all of the people at work in the two block radius of where WIRED was south of Market. As a document, knowing that in 30 years we would look back on those and they would say a lot about what we thought was going on. You know, the dated computers and everything. And for various reasons, even though I can’t pay for that, it never happened. And I still regret it because it would have been an incredible exhibit, an incredible document today.

Henry Kaestner: But each one of our listeners can do a version of that.

Kevin Kelly: Yes, and I did actually. I did have them do it at the 20th anniversary. We did a version of that going around, and I interviewed people and we documented it, and it was as good as I thought it was going to be. But we should have had done it when? 30 years ago. But you can do it. And I recommend doing it.

Henry Kaestner: Okay, Two last ones. What’s a charity organization you like to support?

Kevin Kelly: I like to support. Right now we do Borders without Frontiers for their work partners, and Health is another one that we support for member who unfortunately died recently.

Henry Kaestner: So the Doctors Without Frontiers, the Medecins Sans Frontieres.

Kevin Kelly: Yes, Right. And doctors Partners with Health, who is committed to bringing world class medical care to anywhere in the third developing world like Haiti, if that’s possible. And he was doing that. And every project, it’s something we’ve been supporting for 20 years, which is giving the gift of breeding animals to people in developing world, which entails a bit of passing on of like passing that forward. So the the deal is you get to breeding animals and at some point you have to give to breeding animal to someone else.

Henry Kaestner: To be fruitful and multiply. Yep. Last one. What is God telling you through his word? Maybe today. Maybe it’s this week, but sometime recently.

Kevin Kelly: So the thing that I’m working on is that making God bigger. I want to believe in the biggest God possible. And I think our ideas and concepts are very bounded by our own experience. And I’m trying to. Imagine the biggest God possible because that’s the God I want to follow.

Henry Kaestner: What a great way to end. And just my very, very, very quick riff on that. I have been fascinated by the revivals that are happening and made me go back and look at some. Nicky Gumbel talks about the one in the Hebrides and the big element of revivals is to understand the holiness of God. Calvin might say that, you know, it’s the chief and a man is to know God and enjoyed forever. And if we can all endeavor to know God and not fear him is he might be afraid of him, but just to just be in awe of him. I think that’s the beginning of all wisdom and the best chance we have to be our best version of the only. Which is another big takeaway from our talk today, which I love, which is not to be the best, but to be the only and then to be intentional about seeking God and community and friendship out to figure out what is that? What a great quest. Kevin, this has been awesome. Thank you very, very much for your time, for your your insight you’ve had in my life and so many others.

Kevin Kelly: And my pleasure. Thank you for your interest in my book. Excellent Advice for Living, which will be out in May 2nd. And I really, really enjoyed this conversation. Thank you.

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